"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been on this site for quite a while, and I read it daily cause it helps me kill some time on my fvcking boring job.
I keep coming across the same types of posts.

Here are some simple tips

1. Get off your fvcking ass and just ask the woman out

2. Who gives a shyt if she says no, its not like she pulled your pants down in public. She says no, who cares what she thinks - she just proved she has no taste by rejecting you.

3. Dont read too much into what people say, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.

4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

5. Take any chance you get and stop pulling flower petals "she loves me she loves me not" like a 10 year old with a crush and just get out there and make yourself happy - if you're getting conflicting signals, start looking for someone else and hedge your bets.

6. Your time and life is too valuable to be sitting around worrying.

7. If you bomb out with women say like 41 times in a row, either lower your standards and stop whining or find something else to do while you regroup.

8. Sometimes you can do everything right and still not get the girl, then the problem is with the girl.

9. make as many new friends as you can, new friends means new possibilities. Plus you'll feel less alone and empty. (it seems alot of people are these days)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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*stands up and claps*

well said there.
 

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4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

I don't agree ! Even after that she's liable to fvck you over !!!!!
 

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Originally posted by Pedro:
4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

I don't agree ! Even after that she's liable to fvck you over !!!!!
????????
 

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Originally posted by DonJoey:
3. Dont read too much into what people say, sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
Not if your Bill Clinton!!!


Great tips!!

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Nice guys wait, GOOD guys date!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DonJoey

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Originally posted by Pedro:
4. Dont get emotional about a woman until she's giving birth to your first baby. Until then and even after then, she's liable to fvck you over.

I don't agree ! Even after that she's liable to fvck you over !!!!!
That's what I just said!

[This message has been edited by DonJoey (edited 10-25-2001).]
 

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Bump (why not everyone else does)
 

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Originally posted by DonJoey:
Bump (why not everyone else does)
I would have bumped but you beat me to it!

Great post!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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