When you're talking to a girl, don't try to change the subject too quickly. Ask her something then say or ask something depending on what she says. Don't ask random questions that don't relate much to what she said. Just feed off what shes says. Also, try not to think about the "right" thing to say because this will probably end up in you getting nervous and looking stupid. Have CONFIDENCE IN WHAT YOU SAY. Even if it sounds "stupid" because that may just be your mind trying to psyche you out. If you're a good guy, it will show eventually so don't rush through things by trying to be funny or asking random questions
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
simple tip for convos
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