When you're talking to a girl, don't try to change the subject too quickly. Ask her something then say or ask something depending on what she says. Don't ask random questions that don't relate much to what she said. Just feed off what shes says. Also, try not to think about the "right" thing to say because this will probably end up in you getting nervous and looking stupid. Have CONFIDENCE IN WHAT YOU SAY. Even if it sounds "stupid" because that may just be your mind trying to psyche you out. If you're a good guy, it will show eventually so don't rush through things by trying to be funny or asking random questions
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
simple tip for convos
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