When you're talking to a girl, don't try to change the subject too quickly. Ask her something then say or ask something depending on what she says. Don't ask random questions that don't relate much to what she said. Just feed off what shes says. Also, try not to think about the "right" thing to say because this will probably end up in you getting nervous and looking stupid. Have CONFIDENCE IN WHAT YOU SAY. Even if it sounds "stupid" because that may just be your mind trying to psyche you out. If you're a good guy, it will show eventually so don't rush through things by trying to be funny or asking random questions
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
simple tip for convos
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