"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I got a simple question. While having sex with your girlfriend.....is it totally wrong to request a change of position? I noticed that it is perfectly fine when she asks me for a change of position....but tonight I asked her and she totally flips out and says im selfish etc...blah blah blah. She thinks I'm not attracted to her yada yada.....Jesus!!! she is like days away from her period, and I'm thinking this is because of that.....

It's like I can do or say nothing to rectify it and she told me to leave...WTF


what's going on here?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Donald Kaufman

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I think you are asking if this is fair. No, it's not.

What's going on? There are major issues going on and they are coming out at the weirdest time.

If you truly believe that this is an isolated event you have a few choices.

1. She is crazy.
2. You are unaware.
3. You are not compatible.

If this is part of a pattern focus on #3.
 
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You don't ask.... you do.

You want to change from misionary to doggy? pull out, grab her by her thighs and flip her over.
 
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positions.......

Hey,

You need to always change positions several times during sex........

ie:

Hit it in the doggy for awhile, then move in the sideways for awhile, then switch back to the doggy , then the mission, ect. ect.

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I think it would be kinda' strange to ask a girl to change positions - its kinda like saying to her hey do you mind if I eat some pizza while we are doing this? Then she has the subsueqent flip-out in her mind that she is bad at sex etc... I realize that wasn't your intent.

You *should* just change position - flip her over or whatever and just do it - don't ask.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by phillyb
is it totally wrong to request a change of position? I noticed that it is perfectly fine when she asks me for a change of position....but tonight I asked her and she totally flips out and says im selfish etc...blah blah blah. She thinks I'm not attracted to her yada yada.....Jesus!!! she is like days away from her period, and I'm thinking this is because of that.....

It's like I can do or say nothing to rectify it and she told me to leave...WTF

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pfff... Why are you requesting a position change? You grab her then direct her body towards the position you wanna go for...
 
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