So I just started seeing a girl, going really well so far. We're not committed or have official labels as boyfriend girlfriend, so my question is, is it still ok to accept bootycalls and F*** other girls even though Im seeing this girl?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Simple or not so simple question?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
prairiedog24
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On this forum, there really isn't a difference between what you can do and what you should do. If you want advice on "how" to do it, you'll get it, but "should" isn't really the central theme around here.mtlwlu said:So I just started seeing a girl, going really well so far. We're not committed or have official labels as boyfriend girlfriend, so my question is, is it still ok to accept bootycalls and F*** other girls even though Im seeing this girl?
I would keep seeing other women until this girl asks to be exclusive. Then when she asks, you ask her how many of her exes does she still talk to, etc. If she says 'none' then I will agree to see her exclusively (if that's truly what I want). If she still talks to her exes then I tell her 'I think we'll just keep things the way they are" and she will get the hint. I also don't want a girl to be on any dating sites either if we are gonna have a relationship. I tell her 'you take down your profile, and i'll drop the other girls I'm seeing'.
You basically gotta wait for her to ask to be exclusive, then lay down your ground rules. If you do this it takes care of lots of problems that other people run into in the relationship. You cut that crap out right at the start.
You basically gotta wait for her to ask to be exclusive, then lay down your ground rules. If you do this it takes care of lots of problems that other people run into in the relationship. You cut that crap out right at the start.
YES YOU CAN!!! You guys are not exclusive, you can do whatever you want. Matter of fact, the more she sees you with other girls, the more she will want to fight for your attention!!. Think about it, if you saw other guys talking to her, would you not feel compel to try to get her attention?. Here is a secret: the more she tries to GET your attention the more ATTRACTION she will feels toward you. The point is not to show her that you are interested ( show LITTLE interest here an there) the point IS to make her become more intrested in you
Exactly.jayhood said:YES YOU CAN!!! You guys are not exclusive, you can do whatever you want.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I think you're asking the wrong people, lol. You should ask the girl if SHE's okay with it.
Pick Up is a very objective skillset, it's designed to get the girl and that is all, it doesn't really factor in ethics or relationship management.
I personally think you should let the girl know, it's the ethical thing to do. I believe in karma personally, what goes around comes around.
-Kevin
Pick Up is a very objective skillset, it's designed to get the girl and that is all, it doesn't really factor in ethics or relationship management.
I personally think you should let the girl know, it's the ethical thing to do. I believe in karma personally, what goes around comes around.
-Kevin