"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Simple Guide to Cutting up?

silverwex

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Hey guys,

Been bulking for 8/9 weeks now and put on 16lbs. Im starting to look a bit fat and wanna cut up soon.

Can you give me a few points on how to do it exactly? Ive looked at diesels guide but would like others opinions! Thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cutting up is REAL easy - if you only have the discipline necessary ;-) that's the hard part of cutting up...the way it works isnt too difficult. around 500cals less than you'd eat to maintain your weight, as little fat as possible and as much protein as possible.
 

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No problemo :]
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cat Patrol

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Don't eat within 3-4 hours of going to bed. Try to go to bed just a little bit hungry. Also, dinner should be the lightest meal of the day.

Drink a big glass of water before every meal, makes you feel full faster.

Cut down on all simple carbs. Avoid sugers and flours. Eat lots of veggies with meals.
 

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Personally I see no use in high protein intake when cutting.
The use of it is keeping your muscles...Im not trying to say that you should eat more protein than when ure bulking up though, but you need to eat even more foods that are high in protein or use protein shakes (if u usually get all your protein from "normal" food), because its harder to get as much protein as u usually do if you eat like a 1000 calories less.

You can get away with eating less protein than u do while bulking up but I wouldnt recommend doing this because your muscles will definetly suffer from it.
 

Jariel

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Discipline is essential, but so is patience. My previous weightloss has come through crash diets and the results have been very rapid (yet very dangerous and includes serious muscle deterioration).

Sensible cutting, however, is a lot slower than I expected it to be. I've been cutting for a month now, but I am slowly starting to see the benefits with absolutely no evident muscle loss.

There are some good replies in this thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=61404

(Don't follow my original cutting diet though - I was too far below maintenance)
 
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