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Simp allows wifey to talk him into getting vasectomy, now has painful erections and no sex, and wifey wants a divorce

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My husband had a botched vasectomy seven years ago. Now it hurts him to get an erection. As a result, we haven’t had sex in three years. We’ve had sex about five times total in the last seven. This lack of sex has negatively impacted our intimacy and our relationship. We now feel like co-parenting roommates. I regularly masturbate, but it is lackluster. I really miss sex. He wouldn’t agree to be polyamorous, so I feel like I’m being confined to a lifetime without intimacy. There’s a catch, though.

The vasectomy was done by my urging. It was my idea, so I would feel terrible divorcing him because of it. Do you have any suggestions?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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He allowed himself to be castrated long before the operation took place
vasectomies aren't castration. not sure if you were just reaching for the sake of a joke. but yes if this story is true, you're probably right.

Eek. I got a vasectomy yesterday. Hopefully I won't have the long-term side effects he's had
i've never heard of this happening. i suspect 99% of news outlets are posting nothing but ragebaits nowdays so I assume the story is fabricating details or is just completely made up.
 

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There's always more to the story.

Husband probably doesn't want to have sex with wifey, so he says it hurts.

If the only issue was painful erections, they'd figure something out to keep each other happy.

Getting boners is part of a normal sleep cycle.

If dude got pain with every boner he'd figure out from a doctor what was up after seven years.

At the very least, dude should strap on a big KOCK to keep wifey happy if that was the issue.

Also, she wants to bang other dudes.
 

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Her story sounds convoluted.
She made him get expensive surgery with a cheap doctor so she wouldn't get pregnant, but didn't consider taking birth control?

It's not that difficult for her to get a prescription or receive an injection that lasts 3-6 months.
It seems like no one did any research or he was too passive about it.

There's also desensitizing gel or kegal exercises if he c** too quick.
 
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