MatureDJ
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At My Suggestion, My Husband Got a Vasectomy. Now It’s the Biggest Regret of Our Lives.
Every erection causes a world of pain. I can't take it anymore.
My husband had a botched vasectomy seven years ago. Now it hurts him to get an erection. As a result, we haven’t had sex in three years. We’ve had sex about five times total in the last seven. This lack of sex has negatively impacted our intimacy and our relationship. We now feel like co-parenting roommates. I regularly masturbate, but it is lackluster. I really miss sex. He wouldn’t agree to be polyamorous, so I feel like I’m being confined to a lifetime without intimacy. There’s a catch, though.
The vasectomy was done by my urging. It was my idea, so I would feel terrible divorcing him because of it. Do you have any suggestions?