"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Silverwex's 'Wants List' for 2006

silverwex

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My list for 2006, I will strive to complete every task at hand - LET'S DO IT!

FT Job
Would be good to get back into FT employment although nerves/stress plays a big part for me in this situation. Have to think positive more often and deal with things calmly and confidenctly, and like a man! First week/few days may be tough but hopefully it'll be ok after that.

Driver's Licence
Apply for theory test first, then get provisional licence.

Car
Preferbly a 1996-2000 Renault Megane Coupe. Cost about 4,500 euro.

Own Place
Two bedroom house/apartment (house preferable) with my friend who I get along with extremely well.

More confidence in general
Just to be more confident and relaxed in situatuions I find myself in a lot - the last 3-4 months have been great as I've finally killed off MOST of my anxiety. Just have to keep it going.

Ability to approach girls without much anxiety
This is a big one, I've got my fair share of ladies but I have only ever cold approached a handful of times - gotta start using Style's opinion openers and peacocking a bit more (not outlandish like Mystery tho! lol.)

New Wardrobe
Add some new jeans, cords, shirts, tees and jackets to my wardrobe. Also want to peacock a small bit, not too outlandish but I still want to be a bit unique.

More Muscle/Better Physique
I hope to get from my current state, approx. 175lbs 20%BF, to 180/190lbs 10%BF while increasing strength and maintaining a healthy/desirable physique. Full details of this in H&F on the following thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59180

Be more sociable
Staret listening to hypnosis CD's and practice positive thinking to help me socialise with people (when Im sober!) better. Even asking them boring q's like what they do and how they are is better than nothing!

Once I complete a task, or part of a task, I will post my progress.

Let 2006 begin...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Thanks Jariel, hoping you guys will support and advise me when needed throughout '06 - as per usual! :)

PS - PM me re: the last thing we PM'd about, got some info for you.
 
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