"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Silverwex's 'Wants List' for 2006

silverwex

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My list for 2006, I will strive to complete every task at hand - LET'S DO IT!

FT Job
Would be good to get back into FT employment although nerves/stress plays a big part for me in this situation. Have to think positive more often and deal with things calmly and confidenctly, and like a man! First week/few days may be tough but hopefully it'll be ok after that.

Driver's Licence
Apply for theory test first, then get provisional licence.

Car
Preferbly a 1996-2000 Renault Megane Coupe. Cost about 4,500 euro.

Own Place
Two bedroom house/apartment (house preferable) with my friend who I get along with extremely well.

More confidence in general
Just to be more confident and relaxed in situatuions I find myself in a lot - the last 3-4 months have been great as I've finally killed off MOST of my anxiety. Just have to keep it going.

Ability to approach girls without much anxiety
This is a big one, I've got my fair share of ladies but I have only ever cold approached a handful of times - gotta start using Style's opinion openers and peacocking a bit more (not outlandish like Mystery tho! lol.)

New Wardrobe
Add some new jeans, cords, shirts, tees and jackets to my wardrobe. Also want to peacock a small bit, not too outlandish but I still want to be a bit unique.

More Muscle/Better Physique
I hope to get from my current state, approx. 175lbs 20%BF, to 180/190lbs 10%BF while increasing strength and maintaining a healthy/desirable physique. Full details of this in H&F on the following thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59180

Be more sociable
Staret listening to hypnosis CD's and practice positive thinking to help me socialise with people (when Im sober!) better. Even asking them boring q's like what they do and how they are is better than nothing!

Once I complete a task, or part of a task, I will post my progress.

Let 2006 begin...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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silverwex

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Thanks Jariel, hoping you guys will support and advise me when needed throughout '06 - as per usual! :)

PS - PM me re: the last thing we PM'd about, got some info for you.
 
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