I've dated this girl, but I acted as a cold fish cutting conversations short, and apparently she is jealous of me dating other women. I haven't seen her for a month, she always reacted/responded to my IG stories, but when I tried to set a date she acted bitchy. She told me once "are you joking?", because I told her to talk to me only to go out, I asked her "what do you mean?" And she answered immediately that I was arrogant, and she didn't want to go out and I was acting like I had a girlfriend . After not hearing about her for a week, I called her on Tuesday and told her it was never my intention to make her feel like I didn't care about her. She was asleep and wasn't that receptive, but she asked me how I was, she talked to me a little about how she was, told me she had to hang out with a male friend, but she forgot, which jokingly I told her "you have a flirty friend", and she replied "he is just a friend", then threw some jokes that I was old (she's 20 I'm 27) and I responded "but you like older guys", she said yes. Then she told me that it wasn't a big deal, that wasn't bad being ****y, but she wanted to talk with me when she reached out, and then told me "I don't know what kind of women you have been dating, but I'm not like that", saying it wasn't a big deal. When I asked her "when are you free to get together?" she told me she only could go out on weekends, and that weekend (last week) she wanted to go out with her girl friends, so I told her to meet this weekend, so I set a definite date. Anyway, my gut tells me she's still angry at me, but I have doubt if I should call her again, since between the last call and the day of the day are 11 days.
Should I dig deeper in order to get her to talk to me or should I wait until the date, and risk she cancels ?
Ps: I unfollowed on IG. I tried to follow her back, but she declined my request twice, and now she is apparently giving me the silent tratment.
Should I dig deeper in order to get her to talk to me or should I wait until the date, and risk she cancels ?
Ps: I unfollowed on IG. I tried to follow her back, but she declined my request twice, and now she is apparently giving me the silent tratment.
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