"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Signs your being taken for granted? What to do?

happyman2012

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What are some of the signs your being taken for granted by a girl/girlfriend?

I have a feeling I MIGHT be

She seems to "expect" certian things from me now, as opposed to understanding I do them because I want to and not because I "have to"
and if I dont do them she will be abit "off" with me.

So how do you go about reversing being taken for granted/under appriciated?

Reduce contact and be less avaliable?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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narcissist

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Just continue to have sex with her. Which I hope your doing. Detach your self from her emotionally. And don't do the stupid sh!t she expect you to do, if you don't want to.

"Well then shell stop having sex with me!"

Well my friend you should have an abundance of plates, so that when that happens you can be unaffected, and erase and replace. The more plates the better. More girls = less value placed towards pvssy = less taken advantage of, because what they offer (pvssy) is not considered a rare commodity therefore you don't give up your dignity for it. Simple as that.

dignity worth more than pvssy (abundance) = not gunna budge for womens expectations

dignity worth less than pvssy (due to scarcity) = does everything woman wants

Girls take advantage of guys that they know have no other options. Because they know they are the dudes only source of pvssy. Therefore they can get away with a lot of sh1t.
 

RagingBalls

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You could at least give more insights regarding this. What exactly was the certain things she "expect" you to do? so we are not assuming things here. So we can sort this properly. Thanks
 

El Payaso

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Yeah, you need to be specific.
 

VladPatton

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You gotta stand up for yourself, because no one else will, man. In a simplified methodology, you have 2 basic options:

1. Call her up, out of the blue, and tell her to go fück herself. Never speak to her again. Go on with your life and get an actual fantastic girl.

2. Have fun with the situation. You do the exact opposite of what you promise. When confronted you reply with "oh well!".

Let us know how you do.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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