Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Signs your being taken for granted? What to do?

happyman2012

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What are some of the signs your being taken for granted by a girl/girlfriend?

I have a feeling I MIGHT be

She seems to "expect" certian things from me now, as opposed to understanding I do them because I want to and not because I "have to"
and if I dont do them she will be abit "off" with me.

So how do you go about reversing being taken for granted/under appriciated?

Reduce contact and be less avaliable?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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narcissist

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Just continue to have sex with her. Which I hope your doing. Detach your self from her emotionally. And don't do the stupid sh!t she expect you to do, if you don't want to.

"Well then shell stop having sex with me!"

Well my friend you should have an abundance of plates, so that when that happens you can be unaffected, and erase and replace. The more plates the better. More girls = less value placed towards pvssy = less taken advantage of, because what they offer (pvssy) is not considered a rare commodity therefore you don't give up your dignity for it. Simple as that.

dignity worth more than pvssy (abundance) = not gunna budge for womens expectations

dignity worth less than pvssy (due to scarcity) = does everything woman wants

Girls take advantage of guys that they know have no other options. Because they know they are the dudes only source of pvssy. Therefore they can get away with a lot of sh1t.
 

RagingBalls

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You could at least give more insights regarding this. What exactly was the certain things she "expect" you to do? so we are not assuming things here. So we can sort this properly. Thanks
 

El Payaso

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Yeah, you need to be specific.
 

VladPatton

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You gotta stand up for yourself, because no one else will, man. In a simplified methodology, you have 2 basic options:

1. Call her up, out of the blue, and tell her to go fück herself. Never speak to her again. Go on with your life and get an actual fantastic girl.

2. Have fun with the situation. You do the exact opposite of what you promise. When confronted you reply with "oh well!".

Let us know how you do.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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