"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
signs she loves you
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Alphathree
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Lol "Alphathree should not assume"
Actually nevermind, it has nothing to do with your looks, it's your maturity that's coming through.
I date 19 years old hotties who are extremely fickle sometimes, so I forget that there are attractive women older than me who aren't like that=p
A lot of times if there's some teenager with a b*tch shield that I can't pass, I'll say something like, "you won't be hot forever. Men just add character as they age. As for you, maybe you'll become a normal person when you get older."
Sometimes this goes through a bytch shield like Klingon torpedoes in the episode where they steal the Enterprise's shield frequency.
pimpfromdayone
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Hot women just start out very immature and bratty, and date loser after loser, driven only by emotions, living moment to moment
By the time most are 30, their looks are going downhill and they are forced to wise-up and get a good man while they still can
I like your attitude Alphathree, straighten those bad-attitude women out.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.