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Signs on first date you'll likely never get another date with her again

icantgetlaid

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What are some tell tales on a first date (behavior, something she said, etc.) that makes it pretty obvious the girl wasn't attracted and will never see you again?

One popular one is "It was nice meeting you" at end of date usually means "i'll never talk to you again"... etc.
 

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If you are sitting in a booth and she moves away from you instead of towards you.

If she keeps checking her phone or makes up some BS to cut the date short.

Her body language is drawn in and/or cold.

She gives short answers and doesn't ask questions of you...
 

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She avoids anything in the flirting department that could lead to any erotic related topic, she talks about those "creepy guys" who oly think about sex as if she wants to manipulate you into avoiding that topic or even thinking about it.

Agree on body language, she avoids close distances, doesnt let you touch her or if sitting on a sofa she doesnt rest on your shoulder or worse yet she stays straight and in the other corner.

Quite funny how I used that line "it was nice to meet you" few days ago after a date with a girl which basically was looking to settle down while it was obvious it would have take forever to get sex with her.

You know when girls in their late 20s moves from "date and **** hot guys" to "settle with someone decent as long as you can".

Also lets not forget any mention of an upcoming superbusy schedule, but again I focus more on the -no sex- red flags than the -no more dates- one.
 

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She avoids anything in the flirting department that could lead to any erotic related topic..

Agree on body language, she avoids close distances, doesnt let you touch her or if sitting on a sofa she doesnt rest on your shoulder or worse yet she stays straight and in the other corner.
I gotta agree with this...for me personally...it's pretty obvious when a girl puts on her "super-professional-keeping-a-safe-distance-but-still-being-friendly" guard up.

... it's another example of female deceptiveness that annoys the hell out of me.
 
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Hmm curious guys. Would u leave her there at that point. Had this on date this week and even though i d driven us there I was tempted to shake her hand say nice meeting and just bail. It was in her Neighborhood so it's not like I would have been her across town or anything. Or is this Crossing the Line from DJ to a****** ?

I'll try and make sure we walk everywhere and future but it's bound to come up sometime again. When they are showing disinterest listening to their b******* and an awkward trip in the car back just seems like getting ripped off after spending time and money and attention on them.
 

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Hmm curious guys. Would u leave her there at that point. Had this on date this week and even though i d driven us there I was tempted to shake her hand say nice meeting and just bail. It was in her Neighborhood so it's not like I would have been her across town or anything. Or is this Crossing the Line from DJ to a****** ?

I'll try and make sure we walk everywhere and future but it's bound to come up sometime again. When they are showing disinterest listening to their b******* and an awkward trip in the car back just seems like getting ripped off after spending time and money and attention on them.

If you aren't into her then I don't see anything wrong with this. You are saving both of you from wasting time. I've never bailed right at the onset of a date, but I have left after about 15 minutes...
 

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When she goes to the ladies room and never comes back.
 

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If you are sitting in a booth and she moves away from you instead of towards you.

If she keeps checking her phone or makes up some BS to cut the date short.

Her body language is drawn in and/or cold.

She gives short answers and doesn't ask questions of you...
These ones are cool ... i can handle these ...

It's the girls that try to go out of there way to pretend like they are having a good time / or acting deceptively interested with no intention of ever seeing you again that i have no patience for ..


When she goes to the ladies room and never comes back.
I've had this happen (she came back though) .. but she was in the bathroom for a long time (10-15+ mins) .. this was before i discovered the DJ community .. now i would just get up and leave
 

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These ones are cool ... i can handle these ...

It's the girls that try to go out of there way


I've had this happen (she came back though) .. but she was in the bathroom for a long time (10-20 mins) .. this was in my earlier days ... now i would just get up and leave
I would wait 15 mins she might be busting out a large mud monkey.
 

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When she pushes the conversation into talking about how busy she is and everything that she has going on in the near and distant future, she is doing that hoping that you don't ask her out again.

This is a great topic and a specific one I haven't seen discussed much lately. The best thing to do with this is get to where you are such a master at these signs that you actually become the "busy" one and end the date early before she has a chance to do it first.. I've used the "I just got a text I gotta go into work" or "My dog sitter canceled so I have to go home and check the dog"... You will feel much better giving her the boot before she gives it to you... Nnnnnnext is an awesome word, always remember that.....
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I would wait 15 mins she might be busting out a large mud monkey.
I laughed so hard at this I spit my water all over the computer!!!!!!!!!!! ROFLMFAO!!
 

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some more stuff that pop off my head:
-She says "it was nice meeting you" or when you feel she is saying a real "goodbye" - you can sense it in her voice.
-even worse - handshake, not even a hug.
-when you make future plans and she says "sure" (worse answer) or "i'm busy, buts we can text or talk about" or etc.
-she doesn't laugh or smile - when a girl is into you she will laugh from every sh1t you say.
-no eye contact, looking on other people while you talk to her .- this is probably the best indicator
-she offers to pay her part of the bill (but not in a polite way)
-she doesnt say thank you if you pay the bill.(this also indicates she is a h0e - probably goes on a date to get free stuff- and wants men paying for everything)
-radio silence, no telling anything on her side
-low pitched voice. no excitement about anything you do, or anything she says, short sentences.
-if you go to a restaurant or a bar, sit first on the chair, and look where she is willing to sit (if far away, no 2nd date)
-no flirting, its doesnt have to be sexuell on first date, but you should defintly flirt.
-she is not trying to touch you in anyway, or she avoids any contact. normally - they tell a story about something physical, and describing it by touching you.
-she doesn't drop hits on future meeting "i never tried thai food" "i've never been to that place"
-she had that thing she gotta do, or she orders the check her self just right after you're done eating or drinking.
-she goes too long to the bathroom , probably to check her phone.
-no text after date (she should text you it was a great night bla bla bla) - usually doesnt means it was a bad date, but that you SHOULDNT go on 2nd date because she would have texted you if it was a good one.

you can go on forever...
 
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If she's just totally not 1000% into me i'll probably never ask her out again. I like my dates to be lots of fun, if I show her my idea of fun and she's not into it with me i'll next..
 
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