Signs of interest

[A27]

Just curious....but how would you get a girl interested in you?

I've been doing all this self improvement stuff and life getting better.
But sadly, i still find myself without a girl.
Actual, i get very little interest off any girls.

Any help, much appreciated

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

Just curious....but how would you get a girl interested in you?

I'd read the DJ Bible or ask a less-vague question.

Sorry for being rude. But your question is pretty basic. Coming onto this site asking "How do I get a girl interested in me?" is like going onto a medical website and asking "What should I know about the human body?"

There are dozens of articles and posts that can help you find ways to get women interested in you. Read those. Learn more. And then ask more specific questions.

 

[A27]

Its cool.

I understand what your getting at.

Think i'll just read all the DJ bible tonight.
Should find what i'm looking for.

Cheers

 

[2-D]

Just curious....but how would you get a girl interested in you?

I've been doing all this self improvement stuff and life getting better.
But sadly, i still find myself without a girl.
Actual, i get very little interest off any girls.

Any help, much appreciated

Not too difficult:

. Don't be a generic nobody
. Don't be hideously unattractive and fat
. Don't be a complete nerd

If you got the above down, throw some general conversation at her, tease her a bit, possibly allude to her trying to impress you, and give her compliments.

 

[bookman]

Actualy, personnaly after reading the dj bible, I realised that you cannot get a specific girl interested in you. the Dj bible mproves your odds at that, and improves your odds at getting girls in general but it is not target specific.

And one of the most important things I learned around here is to never get attached to any one specific girl. It doesn't work we move on, there is no arsenal of tricks you can use on a girl...

 

[Isko]

In my experience, if a girl is talking to you, there's a good chance she's interested in you. Consider if she smiles at you, acknowledges you, talks to you, asks you questions, etc. Or whether you feel like you're on her radar at all. If she's giving you her time and attention, and changing her behavior around you (very subtle sometimes), then that's something.

Sometimes girls won't give you any signs that they're interested in you beyond these "friendly" gestures. Girls rarely make moves and take the risk of expressing their interest to you directly. They don't want to risk rejection. Therefore, it's up to you to take the risk, show some interest, and kick things all the way up to where you want them to be. (Kissing her for example.)