"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just curious....but how would you get a girl interested in you?

I've been doing all this self improvement stuff and life getting better.
But sadly, i still find myself without a girl.
Actual, i get very little interest off any girls.

Any help, much appreciated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mantis Toboggan

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A27 said:
Just curious....but how would you get a girl interested in you?

I'd read the DJ Bible or ask a less-vague question.

Sorry for being rude. But your question is pretty basic. Coming onto this site asking "How do I get a girl interested in me?" is like going onto a medical website and asking "What should I know about the human body?"

There are dozens of articles and posts that can help you find ways to get women interested in you. Read those. Learn more. And then ask more specific questions.
 

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Its cool.

I understand what your getting at.

Think i'll just read all the DJ bible tonight.
Should find what i'm looking for.

Cheers
 

2-D

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A27 said:
Just curious....but how would you get a girl interested in you?

I've been doing all this self improvement stuff and life getting better.
But sadly, i still find myself without a girl.
Actual, i get very little interest off any girls.

Any help, much appreciated
Not too difficult:

. Don't be a generic nobody
. Don't be hideously unattractive and fat
. Don't be a complete nerd

If you got the above down, throw some general conversation at her, tease her a bit, possibly allude to her trying to impress you, and give her compliments.
 

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Actualy, personnaly after reading the dj bible, I realised that you cannot get a specific girl interested in you. the Dj bible mproves your odds at that, and improves your odds at getting girls in general but it is not target specific.

And one of the most important things I learned around here is to never get attached to any one specific girl. It doesn't work we move on, there is no arsenal of tricks you can use on a girl...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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In my experience, if a girl is talking to you, there's a good chance she's interested in you. Consider if she smiles at you, acknowledges you, talks to you, asks you questions, etc. Or whether you feel like you're on her radar at all. If she's giving you her time and attention, and changing her behavior around you (very subtle sometimes), then that's something.

Sometimes girls won't give you any signs that they're interested in you beyond these "friendly" gestures. Girls rarely make moves and take the risk of expressing their interest to you directly. They don't want to risk rejection. Therefore, it's up to you to take the risk, show some interest, and kick things all the way up to where you want them to be. (Kissing her for example.)
 
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