"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Signs of Interest

JDMHonduh

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Hey just wanted you guys to point out what some signs of interest are when girls are attracted to ya...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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drummer

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Also, don't use the fact that she isn't displaying any of these signs as an EXCUSE not to approach her.
 

JDMHonduh

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Well I kno her already,,, we are friends... I dont think she wants a relationship tho cuz she is rele interested in another guy. I use kino and flirt w/ her and give her eye contact alot.. but basically I don't know how to advance this...
 

Charm&Style

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^^^

it seems like your trying to rush this friend of yours....if she has her eyes set on another guy just move on for now...if you keep flirting and giving eye contact a lot shell just have you as her puppet
 

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Just read the DJ bible and read some articles at sosuave.com

You'll learn more that way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Distant Light

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It is called IOIs go do a search on asf on IOIs. There was a post similar to this today already:mad:
 

JDMHonduh

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Thanks, I will wait till things cool off w/ her current lover and when it does Ill move in.

Thanks
 
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