"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Signs of Interest

JDMHonduh

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Hey just wanted you guys to point out what some signs of interest are when girls are attracted to ya...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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drummer

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Also, don't use the fact that she isn't displaying any of these signs as an EXCUSE not to approach her.
 

JDMHonduh

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Well I kno her already,,, we are friends... I dont think she wants a relationship tho cuz she is rele interested in another guy. I use kino and flirt w/ her and give her eye contact alot.. but basically I don't know how to advance this...
 

Charm&Style

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^^^

it seems like your trying to rush this friend of yours....if she has her eyes set on another guy just move on for now...if you keep flirting and giving eye contact a lot shell just have you as her puppet
 

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Just read the DJ bible and read some articles at sosuave.com

You'll learn more that way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Distant Light

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It is called IOIs go do a search on asf on IOIs. There was a post similar to this today already:mad:
 

JDMHonduh

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Thanks, I will wait till things cool off w/ her current lover and when it does Ill move in.

Thanks
 
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