Signs of interest mean Jack

[Metro3pilot]

I have noticed lately, the only sign of interest that matters, is when you're drilling that ass into the mattress ...everything else means jack !

something else I have noticed and I don't really understand is I will have several plates spinning and will end up dropping them all ( even the ones that are putting out ) trying to convert a girl who's not interested in getting horizontal ...whats that all about ?

:rockon:

 

[ketostix]

I have noticed lately, the only sign of interest that matters, is when you're drilling that ass into the mattress ...everything else means jack !

something else I have noticed and I don't really understand is I will have several plates spinning and will end up dropping them all ( even the ones that are putting out ) trying to convert a girl who's not interested in getting horizontal ...whats that all about ?

:rockon:

Yeah I agree. A certain precentage of girls you approach will fukk after a short period of time. Everything else is just baloney.

 

[guru1000]

Yo Metro,

95% of the time, a good indicator of High Interest is sex within the first 3 dates.

Any longer than that, you can put the girl on TRIAL.

 

[jophil28]

I have noticed lately, the only sign of interest that matters, is when you're drilling that ass into the mattress ...everything else means jack !


.... trying to convert a girl who's not interested in getting horizontal ...whats that all about ?

:rockon:

Why keep on trying when it ain't working for you? Shake the dust from your shoes and go where, and with whom you will succeed.

 

[Warrior74]

I have noticed lately, the only sign of interest that matters, is when you're drilling that ass into the mattress ...everything else means jack !

I disagree. So you end up drilling random girls who never showed you any sign of interest?

something else I have noticed and I don't really understand is I will have several plates spinning and will end up dropping them all ( even the ones that are putting out ) trying to convert a girl who's not interested in getting horizontal ...whats that all about ?

:rockon:

Pedestal, chasing her instead of her chasing you. slight oneitis. simple.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...trying to convert a girl who's not interested in getting horizontal ...whats that all about ?

I don't know, why are you making such an effort on women who aren't interested and jeopardizing what's already spinning well?

 

[Metro3pilot]

So you end up drilling random girls who never showed you any sign of interest

no, I smply think thats the only sign that matters ....getting the number, they call you back and initiate means nothing

Pedestal, chasing her instead of her chasing you. slight oneitis. simple.

Agree

why are you making such an effort on women who aren't interested and jeopardizing what's already spinning well?

Thats the same thing I was wondering, why I drop productive plates to chase the " one I can't get " is starting to bother me because I can't figure out why.

:rockon:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

....
Thats the same thing I was wondering, why I drop productive plates to chase the " one I can't get " is starting to bother me because I can't figure out why.

:rockon:

Could it be an attempt to prove something?

 

[STR8UP]

I have noticed lately, the only sign of interest that matters, is when you're drilling that ass into the mattress ...everything else means jack !

Pretty much.

Nowadays women have so many options and distractions that unless you REALLY manage to make her go gaga over you, chances of getting flaky behavior and such are high. She could seem TOTALLY into you on a date, making plans to see you again while you are in the middle of the date, just to totally blow you off next time around for one reason or another.

Had this sh!t happen several times over the past year or two.

 

[edger]

"I have noticed lately, the only sign of interest that matters, is when you're drilling that ass into the mattress ...everything else means jack !"

- MetroPilot


Yes, it's the absolute truth, I always say this. The only way to know if a woman is interested in you, is when she let's you f*ck her.

 

[Latinoman]

"I have noticed lately, the only sign of interest that matters, is when you're drilling that ass into the mattress ...everything else means jack !"

- MetroPilot


Yes, it's the absolute truth, I always say this. The only way to know if a woman is interested in you, is when she let's you f*ck her.

And STILL...she might not be necessary interested in you. She could be fcking you because she is drugged or drunk or want to piss somebody off or wants to INTENTIONALLY pass you some sort of disease. I know...I'm extreme.

I get your point.

 

[edger]

. She could be fcking you because she is drugged or drunk or want to piss somebody off

Of course. But in my post, I was referring to when women AREN'T drugged or drunk.

If she lets you f*ck her because she's trying to piss someone off, in that case then, it's nearly impossible to tell.

 

[lookyoung]

Pretty much.

Nowadays women have so many options and distractions that unless you REALLY manage to make her go gaga over you, chances of getting flaky behavior and such are high. She could seem TOTALLY into you on a date, making plans to see you again while you are in the middle of the date, just to totally blow you off next time around for one reason or another.

Had this sh!t happen several times over the past year or two.

I am going to have to agree with you on this. I went out with a girl on a first date last week. Good looking 22 year old with huge tits. She was all over me all night, we were making out like highschool kids at the bar all night. I tried to get her to come over my place that same night and she said maybe next time. I thought the date went great and was really looking forward to getting to know her.... And guess what she ended up flaking for the 2nd date. She always had an excuse....

If a DJ seen our date and if you applied what was written in the bible on the date than there would be a 100% chance I would get a second date.

The ultimate interest level is when a girl sleeps with you. That is the ultimate IOI. 100 other IOI don't match up to that one.

 

[3countriesPlan]

sleeping with you might just mean shes lonely, horny, or just wants to fvck with a guys head.. ultimate interest to me is her loving you. that is something you can't really tell for sure either.. so I have been thinking that the real interest level is unimportant as long as you get what you are looking for emotionally and physically.

 

[edger]

sleeping with you might just mean shes lonely, horny, or just wants to fvck with a guys head.. ultimate interest to me is her loving you. that is something you can't really tell for sure either.. so I have been thinking that the real interest level is unimportant as long as you get what you are looking for emotionally and physically.

Good post! Yes, ultimate interest is definitely her loving you. And like you said, you can't even be certain of whether she really loves you either.

And like you said also, as long as you're getting what you want from her both physically and emotionally. But if I had to choose one or the other in terms of greater importance, it would be the physical gratification.

 

[jophil28]

I am going to have to agree with you on this. I went out with a girl on a first date last week. Good looking 22 year old with huge tits. She was all over me all night, we were making out like highschool kids at the bar all night. I tried to get her to come over my place that same night and she said maybe next time. I thought the date went great and was really looking forward to getting to know her.... And guess what she ended up flaking for the 2nd date. She always had an excuse....

What you thought you saw here as IL (and therefor ATTRACTION ) was merely her taking up an opportunity with you to get a blast of "feel good " chemicals flooding her brain.
Just like eating some sweet gooey chocolate desert until she burst.
Freakin' brain chemicals !! YOu gave her a truckload of what she wanted and she was satisfied -just the same as if she had eaten a huge bowl of chocolate fudge . Do you think that she wanted MORE the next day ?
Where and how did you leave her intrigued and wondering about you and HUNGRY for MORE of you - you did not .
You filled her up instead of giving her just an "appetizer", and then the only way for her to go is AWAY from you. She left the restaurant. Dinner over.

 

[swifTy]

if she's interested, shes interested. it will show in one way or another. if its unclear, listen to your gut, it usually means move on. sometimes tho it takes the chick a while to qualify you. she needs to make sure. she won't do anything until she's sure.

alot of the time, she's sussing you out. she's seeing if you are what she wants. and if you are what you purport to be. of course the date will go well, she's smart enough to make sure it goes smooth and she doesn't want any hard feelings. but afterward, she has made up her mind and you are not for her. you 2 r not meant to be. and thats the process of dating yeah. 2 ppl finding what they want.

 

[lookyoung]

sleeping with you might just mean shes lonely, horny, or just wants to fvck with a guys head.. ultimate interest to me is her loving you. that is something you can't really tell for sure either.. so I have been thinking that the real interest level is unimportant as long as you get what you are looking for emotionally and physically.

Yes, your right as far as relationships go. But as far as the initial IOI than sex is the biggest IOI. Nice post you get rep points from me.

 

[lookyoung]

What you thought you saw here as IL (and therefor ATTRACTION ) was merely her taking up an opportunity with you to get a blast of "feel good " chemicals flooding her brain.
Just like eating some sweet gooey chocolate desert until she burst.
Freakin' brain chemicals !! YOu gave her a truckload of what she wanted and she was satisfied -just the same as if she had eaten a huge bowl of chocolate fudge . Do you think that she wanted MORE the next day ?
Where and how did you leave her intrigued and wondering about you and HUNGRY for MORE of you - you did not .
You filled her up instead of giving her just an "appetizer", and then the only way for her to go is AWAY from you. She left the restaurant. Dinner over.

I like the way you put this. Your probably right. Hopefully she gets hungry again and this time instead of a bowl of chocolate I am going to feed her a bowl of sh1t. I think I am going to get another crack at this braud, And when I do I will make sure she is starving. lol

 

[guru1000]

I like the way you put this. Your probably right. Hopefully she gets hungry again and this time instead of a bowl of chocolate I am going to feed her a bowl of sh1t. I think I am going to get another crack at this braud, And when I do I will make sure she is starving. lol

Hey Lookyoung,

My take on your situation is she might have had med-high IL in you.

However,

She may have had other irons in the fire. Probably one iron may have had a better rapport, history or IL with her.

Plans made the same night and she will flake.

Reverse situation. You are spinning plates and are talked into 2 commitments in one night. Which one do you take?