"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Charm&Style

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Bvbidd said:
Yeah well most people are probally better off before coming to this site anyway.
so true...only if i was a myspace-epimp like some on this site...i wouldnt be wasting my time at work getting wrong advice :crackup:

but then again i know that the only reason im on this site is that there will always be someone with better game than me out there and therefor i always need to strengthen my skills.

nothing wrong with wanting to be the best at something beneficial.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Silverback82 said:
how would one go about proving something like this on the internet?

scientific studies aren't done on things like this so it's not like i can provide a link:(

some guys just don't want to think that there is a possibility that they could've screwed things up so they tell themselves that she is the crazy one:crazy:

hahaha..but wait

why do you need scientific studies to show that most girls love attention and are attention wh****....one really good example is girls at the club...they wear really revealing clothes but yet if some guy checks them out theyll go off on them saying how perverted they are and blaaa blaaa blaaa....when in fact the only reason the guy was lookin at her is cause half her vagina was sticking out :D

but then again i have no problem with that cause thats when the guy with game walks in and escorts the skimpy chick to the back ;)

:crazy: > Me
 

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Charm&Style said:
hahaha..but wait

why do you need scientific studies to show that most girls love attention and are attention wh****....one really good example is girls at the club...they wear really revealing clothes but yet if some guy checks them out theyll go off on them saying how perverted they are and blaaa blaaa blaaa....when in fact the only reason the guy was lookin at her is cause half her vagina was sticking out :D

but then again i have no problem with that cause thats when the guy with game walks in and escorts the skimpy chick to the back ;)

:crazy: > Me
because you asked me to prove it and that can't be proved on an internet site

yeah those girls you described could be attention *****s but then again they probably thought the guy checking them out was ugly, they only want guys that they think are good looing checking them out

besides those aren't the type of girls we are talking about, we are talking about girls that show signs of interest and then all of a sudden lose interest, causing some guys to label them as attention *****s
 

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Silverback82 said:
because you asked me to prove it and that can't be proved on an internet site

yeah those girls you described could be attention *****s but then again they probably thought the guy checking them out was ugly, they only want guys that they think are good looing checking them out

besides those aren't the type of girls we are talking about, we are talking about girls that show signs of interest and then all of a sudden lose interest, causing some guys to label them as attention *****s

...well...then agreed !! Thats the guys fault :rock:
 

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well getting one of these signs might not mean anything, but personally i think i'm pretty good at telling the difference between those trying to deceive me and those who really are, mostly from experience with the former. i realize now in retrospect the difference between those who have deceived and i can even tell those currently trying to mess around with me. this one girl she can make her eyes really inflated, can make her voice sound really interested and does almost all the signs on Makaveli list!! But i had experience with those who truly are genuinely interested and i dunno how to explain it but they give off a certain vibe where you KNOW they are gunning for you. i dunno maybe i haven't seen enough of life yet or something but usually if I follow my gut instead of my infatuation it saves me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you guys manage to get all this stuff while I never see it? I also don't think i'm ugly but I rarely get this sort of stuff as much as you do.
 
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