Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Signs and signals

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Hi, everyone..

Let's wrap it up in a few lines; At this place where i work and at this present moment my desire for her was there since i saw her, those are the laws of attraction, nothing forced, all natural.
She sat in a boot selling tickets, i gazed at her from a distance, she didn't see me yet.. i put my hand in my pocket, knowing i had a little bag of candy, already openend and some other loose wrapped candy.. walked up to her and the boot, gave the candy with a smile and went off back to work.
Some days passed, i worked some days, some days not,.. then one day
she stood in the cantine with a squirt little bit above her knees and a white blouse.. ouch, we were playing from the start, using words, small talk.. but we were 4 people mixing convo > 5 minutes before they took of to go back to work
she wrapped up a napkin, using claws and threw it at me and saying to me i should see her at that certain place tomorrow at work, because she wanted to give the candy back (she didn't say she didn't like it).

Ok that day was today, and the cosmos and creators works miracles, we had a little job exactly where she was working, she figured me to come to her with her hand and a glowing smile and face, in which i .. like a mirror reflect that smile,.. back to her, i signed her to wait with my hand (because i was underway to this little job we needed to do) in which she responded, came running to me to just give me back my candy..?! :) how ****ing sweet, i love her already, i openend the bag of candy and she put 2 of those wrapped candy in the bag..

you explain me, are these signs and signals or what?! and what do they mean?

thnx for reading in advance ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man, what is the problem with English?

If it's seriously THAT much of a problem, type this crap out in Office.

-I am not helping you until you fix that post.
 

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what's wrong man? i would just like to read some good signals and sign you people pick up out of my little story, if you don't really want, then don't bother.
 

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It looks better. I can read it.

Onwards, you have EC. Move with it, talk to her. Candy is nice, but you have to keep moving onwards.
 

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shes either interested, or she has chosen u 2 participate in her childish games lol. :D

i think a bit of both tbh
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thnx, nice..

I will start some smalltalk with her when i see her again, ohhh..
yeah, she's easygoing, reacted right from the start to my "candy advance" to her! I'm thinking of proposing to her to meet outside work, so i can see her in different clothes, nothing to rush.. and well, of course she gets to know me better outside work, although i like to put in a nice dose of mystery
what are some nice humor opening crackers? and what means EC?

thnx again people :up:
 
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