"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Signs and signals

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Hi, everyone..

Let's wrap it up in a few lines; At this place where i work and at this present moment my desire for her was there since i saw her, those are the laws of attraction, nothing forced, all natural.
She sat in a boot selling tickets, i gazed at her from a distance, she didn't see me yet.. i put my hand in my pocket, knowing i had a little bag of candy, already openend and some other loose wrapped candy.. walked up to her and the boot, gave the candy with a smile and went off back to work.
Some days passed, i worked some days, some days not,.. then one day
she stood in the cantine with a squirt little bit above her knees and a white blouse.. ouch, we were playing from the start, using words, small talk.. but we were 4 people mixing convo > 5 minutes before they took of to go back to work
she wrapped up a napkin, using claws and threw it at me and saying to me i should see her at that certain place tomorrow at work, because she wanted to give the candy back (she didn't say she didn't like it).

Ok that day was today, and the cosmos and creators works miracles, we had a little job exactly where she was working, she figured me to come to her with her hand and a glowing smile and face, in which i .. like a mirror reflect that smile,.. back to her, i signed her to wait with my hand (because i was underway to this little job we needed to do) in which she responded, came running to me to just give me back my candy..?! :) how ****ing sweet, i love her already, i openend the bag of candy and she put 2 of those wrapped candy in the bag..

you explain me, are these signs and signals or what?! and what do they mean?

thnx for reading in advance ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man, what is the problem with English?

If it's seriously THAT much of a problem, type this crap out in Office.

-I am not helping you until you fix that post.
 

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what's wrong man? i would just like to read some good signals and sign you people pick up out of my little story, if you don't really want, then don't bother.
 

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It looks better. I can read it.

Onwards, you have EC. Move with it, talk to her. Candy is nice, but you have to keep moving onwards.
 

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shes either interested, or she has chosen u 2 participate in her childish games lol. :D

i think a bit of both tbh
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thnx, nice..

I will start some smalltalk with her when i see her again, ohhh..
yeah, she's easygoing, reacted right from the start to my "candy advance" to her! I'm thinking of proposing to her to meet outside work, so i can see her in different clothes, nothing to rush.. and well, of course she gets to know me better outside work, although i like to put in a nice dose of mystery
what are some nice humor opening crackers? and what means EC?

thnx again people :up:
 
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