"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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THE_ADDMAN

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More than a "touch" of confidence, dude.

sometimes, just for fun, I'll say it even after doing something completely UN-Super Suave, IE I'll make a really bad joke deliberately, and then when she gives me a half smile, I'll wink and say it.

other times, if its a girl who knows that I do it a lot (and she knows what the pose means), I'll do something like stand behind it and bump her butt with mine playfully. she turns around and shoots me a dirty look, I just stand there doing the pose until she cracks up. good times :)

simple rule is, if you care what others think of you, you'll look stupid doing it

if you do it because you're very sure of yourself, and are having fun, it'll work.

Dont do a "signature move" to impress others. Do it to make things fun for yourself.

Edit: Check out the picture in my profile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
simple rule is, if you care what others think of you, you'll look stupid doing it

if you do it because you're very sure of yourself, and are having fun, it'll work.

Dont do a "signature move" to impress others. Do it to make things fun for yourself.
So true
 
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Quiksilver said:
As a driver and owner of a car that might be on the road at the same time as you, I recommend you don't do that.
lol u live in toronto thats like in mexico or wateva u wont be driving w/ me lol











jk toronto is in Canada eh
 
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