"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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THE_ADDMAN

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More than a "touch" of confidence, dude.

sometimes, just for fun, I'll say it even after doing something completely UN-Super Suave, IE I'll make a really bad joke deliberately, and then when she gives me a half smile, I'll wink and say it.

other times, if its a girl who knows that I do it a lot (and she knows what the pose means), I'll do something like stand behind it and bump her butt with mine playfully. she turns around and shoots me a dirty look, I just stand there doing the pose until she cracks up. good times :)

simple rule is, if you care what others think of you, you'll look stupid doing it

if you do it because you're very sure of yourself, and are having fun, it'll work.

Dont do a "signature move" to impress others. Do it to make things fun for yourself.

Edit: Check out the picture in my profile.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
simple rule is, if you care what others think of you, you'll look stupid doing it

if you do it because you're very sure of yourself, and are having fun, it'll work.

Dont do a "signature move" to impress others. Do it to make things fun for yourself.
So true
 
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Quiksilver said:
As a driver and owner of a car that might be on the road at the same time as you, I recommend you don't do that.
lol u live in toronto thats like in mexico or wateva u wont be driving w/ me lol











jk toronto is in Canada eh
 
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