Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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kino: we'd usually walk around in the hallways in my HS so what i do is, i go up to someone, cover their eyes and make them guess (to create rapport) or just walk up join the group and put my arms around two girls, or two friends.:cool:

anyone has anything better or cool and simple that i can try out?

also, when do you know when a girl's ready to be asked out? i'm sure there's these girls that crush on me, but i ain't sure! i'm just gonna get to know them better until i see better signals... is this a good idea?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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when she flips her hair, licks her lips and presses her breasts together, theres a 87.75% chance she likes you.
 

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if there are signals of interest from them, its good to make plans as soon as u can. if they say no, then you know they werent interested, and u can move on.

There, even more practical advice :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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takes time to get over it.

the most important thing is not wasting your time on girls who arent interested.

best of luck :)
 

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I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
 

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thx! lol. i'm gonna just relax and be myself. and if she doesn't like it, we never would have last regardless. plus there's others. lol. it's so easy to say.. hard to do. but i'll try what you said
 
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well i just coined my signature saying

if anyone asks me wat time were going to the movies or wat time the limo is leaving(winter formal) i reply first as a joke "I dont know! im just the arm candy!" then laugh and telll them wats happening if i even kno

and once i can drive ill start pulling the Stare & Drive from 2fast 2 furious just cuz i live in miami
 

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Plec07 said:
I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
What if you mess up and drop the coin? haha Other than that...its kinda smooth :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Plec07 said:
I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
as of now to tell the truth i dont have the balls to do that
 

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Plec07 said:
I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
lol. i don't feel like getting slapped. i AM in high school. and i have a reputation to keep and distroy. but i WOULD like to see the person do it. it would prob be halarious if done right.
 

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my sig is my special slow dances. The ones that kiss close. Girls know to anticipate the kiss when we dance together
 

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Originally posted by The Columbus Myth
and once i can drive ill start pulling the Stare & Drive from 2fast 2 furious just cuz i live in miami
As a driver and owner of a car that might be on the road at the same time as you, I recommend you don't do that.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NewspaperRalph said:
kino: we'd usually walk around in the hallways in my HS so what i do is, i go up to someone, cover their eyes and make them guess (to create rapport) or just walk up join the group and put my arms around two girls, or two friends.:cool:

anyone has anything better or cool and simple that i can try out?

also, when do you know when a girl's ready to be asked out? i'm sure there's these girls that crush on me, but i ain't sure! i'm just gonna get to know them better until i see better signals... is this a good idea?
dude! you sound creepy :nervous: you cover their eyes? if that is your sig. move you are in trouble.

putting your arms around two girls is soooo gay. please don't tell me you do this regularly. don't be that guy. most of those girls in your school are probably spoiled brats. don't give them another reason to feel good about themselves.

here is a fact. you get girls by having the upper-hand. this means you need to either be older or score a whole lot of touchdowns with the old pigskin. mmm...so go practice that touchdown pose. :up:
 

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^^^^^^^yes have the upper hand

Yes this is true, having the upper hand is essential in hs. The reason is that the girls are so immiture. Go play a sport that you like and get good at and score points, and then don't innisiate any kino untill they kino you, and they will if ur good or popular enough... Or try this! Get really good at school and also play sports, graduate at as ur schools validictorian. When ur a sen you can act too success driven to give shyt about girls... Make sure ur cool friends tell every one u the validitorian... Walking by the hotties will make their panties wet...
 

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pvf94 said:
What if you mess up and drop the coin? haha Other than that...its kinda smooth :D
I'm prepared for that lol, I always keep a coin in the other hand just incase. I have a fast arm from my guitar playing style anyway and have only failed 1ce and the girl didn't notice (at least I hope she didn't lol) so all's good.

Oh and I've never gotten a slap from this, mainly coz I usually walk off before they get a chance to realise what happened (if you can do the thing where you jump and clap your feet out to 1 side that can often work well to give her something to talk to you about later but don't look back while doing it... and don't fall over lol). But as long as u try not to pick a really b!tchy uptight girl you prolly wont get slapped.
 

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Signature moves? alright lol

Sometimes after ad libbing some particularly cool line, or witty statement, I'll do a really ****y pose and say "Super suave!", often right in front of the girl.

or, in true Denny Crane style (watch Boston Legal. great show :)), I'll point to myself and say "ADDMAN" with a ****y expression, when I am particularly proud of myself (happens a lot at school, I tend to get high marks)
 

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hahah. wow. a pose! i'm playing it through in my head, and it looks wierd. But i ain't a PUA -those guys probally get away with anything! You probally add a touch of confidence and fun into it eh?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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