"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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kino: we'd usually walk around in the hallways in my HS so what i do is, i go up to someone, cover their eyes and make them guess (to create rapport) or just walk up join the group and put my arms around two girls, or two friends.:cool:

anyone has anything better or cool and simple that i can try out?

also, when do you know when a girl's ready to be asked out? i'm sure there's these girls that crush on me, but i ain't sure! i'm just gonna get to know them better until i see better signals... is this a good idea?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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when she flips her hair, licks her lips and presses her breasts together, theres a 87.75% chance she likes you.
 

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if there are signals of interest from them, its good to make plans as soon as u can. if they say no, then you know they werent interested, and u can move on.

There, even more practical advice :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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takes time to get over it.

the most important thing is not wasting your time on girls who arent interested.

best of luck :)
 

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I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
 

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thx! lol. i'm gonna just relax and be myself. and if she doesn't like it, we never would have last regardless. plus there's others. lol. it's so easy to say.. hard to do. but i'll try what you said
 
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well i just coined my signature saying

if anyone asks me wat time were going to the movies or wat time the limo is leaving(winter formal) i reply first as a joke "I dont know! im just the arm candy!" then laugh and telll them wats happening if i even kno

and once i can drive ill start pulling the Stare & Drive from 2fast 2 furious just cuz i live in miami
 

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Plec07 said:
I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
What if you mess up and drop the coin? haha Other than that...its kinda smooth :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Plec07 said:
I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
as of now to tell the truth i dont have the balls to do that
 

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Plec07 said:
I'd say just go for it and if they aint interested move on. You got nothing to lose if your not particularly good mates with em and like some1 on here said (can't remember who but you know who you are) it's better to get rejected than to regret.

Also what I love to do as a sort of signature thing is when I walk past a girl I like while she's distracted I'll just drop a 10p coin down her back move my hand under her shirt and catch it before it falls out. Then just lean over her shoulder and wisper in her ear "sorry I just wanted an excuse to feel you up" with a ****y grin and drop the 10p in her top pocket or hand and walk off. Faily bold and can be risky if you do it to a really uptight girl though but who cares? the look on their face is priceless lol.;)
lol. i don't feel like getting slapped. i AM in high school. and i have a reputation to keep and distroy. but i WOULD like to see the person do it. it would prob be halarious if done right.
 

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my sig is my special slow dances. The ones that kiss close. Girls know to anticipate the kiss when we dance together
 

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Originally posted by The Columbus Myth
and once i can drive ill start pulling the Stare & Drive from 2fast 2 furious just cuz i live in miami
As a driver and owner of a car that might be on the road at the same time as you, I recommend you don't do that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NewspaperRalph said:
kino: we'd usually walk around in the hallways in my HS so what i do is, i go up to someone, cover their eyes and make them guess (to create rapport) or just walk up join the group and put my arms around two girls, or two friends.:cool:

anyone has anything better or cool and simple that i can try out?

also, when do you know when a girl's ready to be asked out? i'm sure there's these girls that crush on me, but i ain't sure! i'm just gonna get to know them better until i see better signals... is this a good idea?
dude! you sound creepy :nervous: you cover their eyes? if that is your sig. move you are in trouble.

putting your arms around two girls is soooo gay. please don't tell me you do this regularly. don't be that guy. most of those girls in your school are probably spoiled brats. don't give them another reason to feel good about themselves.

here is a fact. you get girls by having the upper-hand. this means you need to either be older or score a whole lot of touchdowns with the old pigskin. mmm...so go practice that touchdown pose. :up:
 

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^^^^^^^yes have the upper hand

Yes this is true, having the upper hand is essential in hs. The reason is that the girls are so immiture. Go play a sport that you like and get good at and score points, and then don't innisiate any kino untill they kino you, and they will if ur good or popular enough... Or try this! Get really good at school and also play sports, graduate at as ur schools validictorian. When ur a sen you can act too success driven to give shyt about girls... Make sure ur cool friends tell every one u the validitorian... Walking by the hotties will make their panties wet...
 

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pvf94 said:
What if you mess up and drop the coin? haha Other than that...its kinda smooth :D
I'm prepared for that lol, I always keep a coin in the other hand just incase. I have a fast arm from my guitar playing style anyway and have only failed 1ce and the girl didn't notice (at least I hope she didn't lol) so all's good.

Oh and I've never gotten a slap from this, mainly coz I usually walk off before they get a chance to realise what happened (if you can do the thing where you jump and clap your feet out to 1 side that can often work well to give her something to talk to you about later but don't look back while doing it... and don't fall over lol). But as long as u try not to pick a really b!tchy uptight girl you prolly wont get slapped.
 

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Signature moves? alright lol

Sometimes after ad libbing some particularly cool line, or witty statement, I'll do a really ****y pose and say "Super suave!", often right in front of the girl.

or, in true Denny Crane style (watch Boston Legal. great show :)), I'll point to myself and say "ADDMAN" with a ****y expression, when I am particularly proud of myself (happens a lot at school, I tend to get high marks)
 

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hahah. wow. a pose! i'm playing it through in my head, and it looks wierd. But i ain't a PUA -those guys probally get away with anything! You probally add a touch of confidence and fun into it eh?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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