"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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THE_ADDMAN

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More than a "touch" of confidence, dude.

sometimes, just for fun, I'll say it even after doing something completely UN-Super Suave, IE I'll make a really bad joke deliberately, and then when she gives me a half smile, I'll wink and say it.

other times, if its a girl who knows that I do it a lot (and she knows what the pose means), I'll do something like stand behind it and bump her butt with mine playfully. she turns around and shoots me a dirty look, I just stand there doing the pose until she cracks up. good times :)

simple rule is, if you care what others think of you, you'll look stupid doing it

if you do it because you're very sure of yourself, and are having fun, it'll work.

Dont do a "signature move" to impress others. Do it to make things fun for yourself.

Edit: Check out the picture in my profile.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
simple rule is, if you care what others think of you, you'll look stupid doing it

if you do it because you're very sure of yourself, and are having fun, it'll work.

Dont do a "signature move" to impress others. Do it to make things fun for yourself.
So true
 
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Quiksilver said:
As a driver and owner of a car that might be on the road at the same time as you, I recommend you don't do that.
lol u live in toronto thats like in mexico or wateva u wont be driving w/ me lol











jk toronto is in Canada eh
 
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