"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Signals from Uni girls

SamMalone

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I'm at university right now, overcoming my AFC style for about a year now, but I'm still don't see "signals" from girls my age (19-21). I have got the standard eye contact/smile thing from women in their mid-20s, which have turned out moderatly well, but that's it. Are girls my age too shy to give the signals or what?

(BTW, I'm talking about a "Come approach me" signal, before we have introduced ourselves)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I notice the same thing on campus and sometimes you just are going to have to do a truly cold approach if they don't look at you at all. It's better than entirely not approaching and wishing you had. Worse comes to worse, you get rejected.
 

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That's not true...
Ask yourself: what do I have that distiguishes me from the rest of male population of the school. A guy who is really good looking, buff, sports star... whatever, I'd bet the house that he gets them.

So the problem isn't the nervous women, but rather generic men.
Some guys will wear all kinds of funky shyt just for that purpose: to stand out from the crowd, which will cause intrigue which leads to IOI. That's just one way though.... besides you don't need a signal to approach in order to seduce a girl
 
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