"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Signals from Uni girls

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SamMalone

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I'm at university right now, overcoming my AFC style for about a year now, but I'm still don't see "signals" from girls my age (19-21). I have got the standard eye contact/smile thing from women in their mid-20s, which have turned out moderatly well, but that's it. Are girls my age too shy to give the signals or what?

(BTW, I'm talking about a "Come approach me" signal, before we have introduced ourselves)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I notice the same thing on campus and sometimes you just are going to have to do a truly cold approach if they don't look at you at all. It's better than entirely not approaching and wishing you had. Worse comes to worse, you get rejected.
 
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That's not true...
Ask yourself: what do I have that distiguishes me from the rest of male population of the school. A guy who is really good looking, buff, sports star... whatever, I'd bet the house that he gets them.

So the problem isn't the nervous women, but rather generic men.
Some guys will wear all kinds of funky shyt just for that purpose: to stand out from the crowd, which will cause intrigue which leads to IOI. That's just one way though.... besides you don't need a signal to approach in order to seduce a girl
 
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