"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Signals from Uni girls

SamMalone

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I'm at university right now, overcoming my AFC style for about a year now, but I'm still don't see "signals" from girls my age (19-21). I have got the standard eye contact/smile thing from women in their mid-20s, which have turned out moderatly well, but that's it. Are girls my age too shy to give the signals or what?

(BTW, I'm talking about a "Come approach me" signal, before we have introduced ourselves)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I notice the same thing on campus and sometimes you just are going to have to do a truly cold approach if they don't look at you at all. It's better than entirely not approaching and wishing you had. Worse comes to worse, you get rejected.
 

Don_Marko

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That's not true...
Ask yourself: what do I have that distiguishes me from the rest of male population of the school. A guy who is really good looking, buff, sports star... whatever, I'd bet the house that he gets them.

So the problem isn't the nervous women, but rather generic men.
Some guys will wear all kinds of funky shyt just for that purpose: to stand out from the crowd, which will cause intrigue which leads to IOI. That's just one way though.... besides you don't need a signal to approach in order to seduce a girl
 
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