"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sigmund Freud was right!

mahon83050

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If any of you ever took any psychology classes in high school or in college you are familiar with Sigmund Freud and some of his wierd theories. However, I do think one of them is correct due to first hand experience.

I suffer from an anxiety disorder known as OCD. OCD is characterized by intrusive, unwanted, persistant thoughts that are accompanied by anxiety. These thoughts are bizarre, a product of one's own mind (unlike schizophrenia) and usually not related to real life problems. (e.g. a person has obessions about germs, but feels to need to wash his hands 50X a day, eventhough deep down he knows it is ridiculous).

Well...to get to my point. I remember Freud mentioned something about a person who had disturbing thoughts about stealing. Freud said these thoughts are triggerred due to the persons unconscious guilt about masterbation. Once the person ceases masterbating, the thoughts ceased or were seriously abated.

I notice, when I do not wack it (I am on my 4th day now) my anxiety disorder gets much better and I do not suffer from unwanted repetitive thoughts as much. I think Freud was definitely onto something.......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I dunno man, youre saying that you felt guilty about masturbating which resulted in OCD? How would guilt about masturbating result in anxiety or something else?
 

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I'm autistic and it's similar to OCD in that I have obsessive and ritualistic thoughts, except the obsessions are transient. I can be obsessed about something for a day, week, month, or even years, and then I will move onto thinking about something else. My current fixation is DJing—of the music variety. But however, I don't find any correlation between repetitive thoughts and not exercising the good ole relief valve. The few times I've gone without, I do seem to be somewhat more relaxed, but with no noticeable change of repetitions. If anything, I would wager my bets that it's more likely an issue of physiology than psychology.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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