“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sigh...I guess I'm her boyfriend? I think I screwed up here.

8ball

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Had a date.

Went good. She spent the night & I did her. We stayed up all night having s*x, joking, laughing, and cuddling.

Sooooooo...next day..

Get email saying that she's not normally that easy :rolleyes: , usually takes months etc..and wants to know if her 'boyfriend' ( meaning me ) can come look at her car.

Then another email and another mention of the fact that I'm her boyfriend.

Hmmm..Well, I dig this woman..she's VERY cool. I like her style and wouldn't mind having her around for a while.

>>Here is where I think I screwed up.<<

Not only in email, but also on phone, I'm getting major hints that she wants me to know that she considers me her boyfriend. ( And by 'boyfriend' I take that to mean 'exclusive relationship )

So..I don't really feel like playing games..so I reply to one of her emails and say something to the effect..'Hey..If you wanna consider us a couple.it's cool. '

Ugh..Was that a bad move? No challenge? Did I lay down too easy?

Or, after you had s*x w/ the woman..is this OK? ( In small doses. )

What's the play here?
 

Walden

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Dude, relax.

It sounds like you're making a masive deal outta nothing here.
 

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Do whatever you want. If you already boned her and she called you her boyfriend, you can get away with quite a bit.
 

Julian

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Dude who cares, its not like you cant leave her whenever you want. Be a couple, be exclusive. When she gets boring, leave.
 

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Hey at this point you've won. Do whatever you want, you've got a girlfriend if you want one, if not as the others said, just leave.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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