well today i had sex with a girl i was dating, and we had sex but we had tto leave due to her borther coming home in the hour we had sex i made her O 3 times and in the end she asked me to finish quick before her brother comes. i was unable to come on demand and she ended up being really mad at me?? i dont get it i thought women wanted a guy who can last long but apparently not? can anyone explain to me wth happend im baffled she would be mad if she got hers and found out i have stamina (not bragging just confused)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
*sigh, apparently whether u last or not during sex women arent satisified :/
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
She probably just had this idea in her head that you'd *** at some point. Since you didn't, her image of how things were going to go was thrown out of wack so she got mad at you for it. It doesn't have to make sense to happen, unfortunately.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Some women get off on guys busting a nut and she sounds like one. Better put a ring on that finger...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
It happens... In my experience women don't often want marathon sex sessions, they'd rather get it frequently. Like, **** her before you go out to dinner, **** her after, **** her again in the morning, and **** her after breakfast. Of course keeping the sensual undertones the whole time. I guess the whole breakfast thing depends on how comfortable you are with that. Don't make them quickies by any means but don't be one of those mechanical marathon never-cummers.
DonGorgon
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lol.. i have noticed that but i dont care.. i can F for hours as long as i want cumming is not important to me at all.. and my best F buddies are glad i can F them all night long..horaholic said:Chicks get pissed if you dont nut. Especially first timers. I have that problem, too. If you dont cvm the first time with a girl, she usually wont give you another chance.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I had the same problem a couple of days ago.
For some reason, I don't cvm with a girl on my first couple meetings until I get comfortable with them.
I have what I call the "twenty minute barrier." If I go for beyond twenty minutes, it don't matter. I won't go.
The last two girls that I dated. I didn't cvm until the third or fourth time with them. They got upset with me after thirty minutes or so.
I explain that I last longer and the twenty minute barrier and they seem to understand.
- comic_relief
For some reason, I don't cvm with a girl on my first couple meetings until I get comfortable with them.
I have what I call the "twenty minute barrier." If I go for beyond twenty minutes, it don't matter. I won't go.
The last two girls that I dated. I didn't cvm until the third or fourth time with them. They got upset with me after thirty minutes or so.
I explain that I last longer and the twenty minute barrier and they seem to understand.
- comic_relief
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
I can pretty much cvm when i want... 2 minutes or 60 - doesn't matter...
i can also keep going after i cvm ... however, the 2nd/3rd times - i do not have the ability to cvm when i want... in fact - i can go for hours sometimes and not even feel like im going to (After the 1st that is)...
this confuses women... and i can sometimes see them panicking when i don't bust when they want me to...
here's how i handle it:
her: "i've gotten mine, it's time for you to get yours"
2-3 minutes go by (she probably got another one in the time period)
her: "why haven't you busted yet? i said it was time for you to get yours."
i'll grab her face at this point and squeeze her jaws together...
me: "i don't give a fvck what you want. im gonna keep giving you more and you're gonna keep taking it."
it can get interesting from here =)
but the point is - instead of saying you can't, or trying REAL hard to - just tell her you aren't... be strong about it... she doesn't need to know that you can't.... just tell her to shut up... and laugh... laugh while you're fvcking her! she won't wonder any longer why you aren't busting... she'lll wonder why you're laughing haha
i can also keep going after i cvm ... however, the 2nd/3rd times - i do not have the ability to cvm when i want... in fact - i can go for hours sometimes and not even feel like im going to (After the 1st that is)...
this confuses women... and i can sometimes see them panicking when i don't bust when they want me to...
here's how i handle it:
her: "i've gotten mine, it's time for you to get yours"
2-3 minutes go by (she probably got another one in the time period)
her: "why haven't you busted yet? i said it was time for you to get yours."
i'll grab her face at this point and squeeze her jaws together...
me: "i don't give a fvck what you want. im gonna keep giving you more and you're gonna keep taking it."
it can get interesting from here =)
but the point is - instead of saying you can't, or trying REAL hard to - just tell her you aren't... be strong about it... she doesn't need to know that you can't.... just tell her to shut up... and laugh... laugh while you're fvcking her! she won't wonder any longer why you aren't busting... she'lll wonder why you're laughing haha