well today i had sex with a girl i was dating, and we had sex but we had tto leave due to her borther coming home in the hour we had sex i made her O 3 times and in the end she asked me to finish quick before her brother comes. i was unable to come on demand and she ended up being really mad at me?? i dont get it i thought women wanted a guy who can last long but apparently not? can anyone explain to me wth happend im baffled she would be mad if she got hers and found out i have stamina (not bragging just confused)
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
*sigh, apparently whether u last or not during sex women arent satisified :/
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
She probably just had this idea in her head that you'd *** at some point. Since you didn't, her image of how things were going to go was thrown out of wack so she got mad at you for it. It doesn't have to make sense to happen, unfortunately.
Da Realist
Master Don Juan
Some women get off on guys busting a nut and she sounds like one. Better put a ring on that finger...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It happens... In my experience women don't often want marathon sex sessions, they'd rather get it frequently. Like, **** her before you go out to dinner, **** her after, **** her again in the morning, and **** her after breakfast. Of course keeping the sensual undertones the whole time. I guess the whole breakfast thing depends on how comfortable you are with that. Don't make them quickies by any means but don't be one of those mechanical marathon never-cummers.
DonGorgon
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lol.. i have noticed that but i dont care.. i can F for hours as long as i want cumming is not important to me at all.. and my best F buddies are glad i can F them all night long..horaholic said:Chicks get pissed if you dont nut. Especially first timers. I have that problem, too. If you dont cvm the first time with a girl, she usually wont give you another chance.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
I had the same problem a couple of days ago.
For some reason, I don't cvm with a girl on my first couple meetings until I get comfortable with them.
I have what I call the "twenty minute barrier." If I go for beyond twenty minutes, it don't matter. I won't go.
The last two girls that I dated. I didn't cvm until the third or fourth time with them. They got upset with me after thirty minutes or so.
I explain that I last longer and the twenty minute barrier and they seem to understand.
- comic_relief
For some reason, I don't cvm with a girl on my first couple meetings until I get comfortable with them.
I have what I call the "twenty minute barrier." If I go for beyond twenty minutes, it don't matter. I won't go.
The last two girls that I dated. I didn't cvm until the third or fourth time with them. They got upset with me after thirty minutes or so.
I explain that I last longer and the twenty minute barrier and they seem to understand.
- comic_relief
bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
I can pretty much cvm when i want... 2 minutes or 60 - doesn't matter...
i can also keep going after i cvm ... however, the 2nd/3rd times - i do not have the ability to cvm when i want... in fact - i can go for hours sometimes and not even feel like im going to (After the 1st that is)...
this confuses women... and i can sometimes see them panicking when i don't bust when they want me to...
here's how i handle it:
her: "i've gotten mine, it's time for you to get yours"
2-3 minutes go by (she probably got another one in the time period)
her: "why haven't you busted yet? i said it was time for you to get yours."
i'll grab her face at this point and squeeze her jaws together...
me: "i don't give a fvck what you want. im gonna keep giving you more and you're gonna keep taking it."
it can get interesting from here =)
but the point is - instead of saying you can't, or trying REAL hard to - just tell her you aren't... be strong about it... she doesn't need to know that you can't.... just tell her to shut up... and laugh... laugh while you're fvcking her! she won't wonder any longer why you aren't busting... she'lll wonder why you're laughing haha
i can also keep going after i cvm ... however, the 2nd/3rd times - i do not have the ability to cvm when i want... in fact - i can go for hours sometimes and not even feel like im going to (After the 1st that is)...
this confuses women... and i can sometimes see them panicking when i don't bust when they want me to...
here's how i handle it:
her: "i've gotten mine, it's time for you to get yours"
2-3 minutes go by (she probably got another one in the time period)
her: "why haven't you busted yet? i said it was time for you to get yours."
i'll grab her face at this point and squeeze her jaws together...
me: "i don't give a fvck what you want. im gonna keep giving you more and you're gonna keep taking it."
it can get interesting from here =)
but the point is - instead of saying you can't, or trying REAL hard to - just tell her you aren't... be strong about it... she doesn't need to know that you can't.... just tell her to shut up... and laugh... laugh while you're fvcking her! she won't wonder any longer why you aren't busting... she'lll wonder why you're laughing haha