"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Side Bends

LoneSilver

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Do weighted Side Bends really help to tone the abs or the area they call love handles and with restricted calorie diet?

Do Deadlifts and Bend Over Rows help tone this area as well?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Toning is not induced with any one exercise, it's a low overall bodyfat that does it. For most people side bends are unnecessary unless you're a powerlifter and have weak hips (and even then there's better ways to strengthen them).
 

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there is no such thing as "toning" a muscle. there is building muscle, and there is stripping off the bodyfat that obscures it. the result of combining both is the quote-unquote "toned look" that bowflex & ab-doer commercials drone on about.
 

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Side bends are like a loaded stretch for your obliques. They're a good thing but you can't go very heavy or work your obliques maximally in a safe way doing them. You can vary it a lot depending on which hand is holding the weight (or if both are) whether the arm is by your side, cleaned, or overhead, and so forth.
 

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Ok, so it's basically lower calories that get rid of this so called love handles and do the Deadlifts, Squats, and Bend Over Rows I am doing help build this area with muscle?

LoneSilver
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lonesilver, read the stickies and the basic guides. The love handle area isn't supposed to be built, it's a fat storage area (although some guys have blocky waists even at low bodyfat) for the most part. The obliques will get enough stimulation from the compounds, yes.
 

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Ok, thanks Alex.

LoneSilver :)

Warboss Alex said:
Lonesilver, read the stickies and the basic guides. The love handle area isn't supposed to be built, it's a fat storage area (although some guys have blocky waists even at low bodyfat) for the most part. The obliques will get enough stimulation from the compounds, yes.
 
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