"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sick of being a manufacturing supervisor, getting it from both the bottom and the top, and the managers are almost always exclusively idiots.

Borknagar

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Guess my topic gives most of it.

Anyone else feel constantly being stress about work may also be hindering you?

My job can be very stressful. Dealing with **** from both employees, and inept management which is pretty much every factory I've been in. The dumbest people in the building have "manager" attached to their title.

But I'm sick of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I work at a factory. A couple years ago management asked me whether I aspired to become a supervisor. I immediately replied I have zero interest in that. The manager was surprisingly positive, stating it was very common for the most competent people to want to progress to supervisor, meaning they're losing competent people to do the actual job.

I don't want the position exactly for the reasons you mention, besides, the pay isn't really much better. It would just be doing more of what I hate, less of what I like, way more limited opportunity to take time off and more responsibility.

It's a bad deal. In my eyes it's not a step up, it's just the same with different work responsibilities which doesn't suit me.
 

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It's called Middle Management Hell and you are not alone.

If you never start climbing, you never have to face your limitations, in the past you could just brute force your way through qualification with experience but in the age of legal liability and HR, there are hard stops your going to hit and most people feel if they are going to hit one of those hard stops early on that climbing is useless, exactly for the reasons you've described here because you'll be caught in the middle without anywhere to go.

If your going to start climbing, your gonna want to accept the reality that you'll need to attain further education in order to continue climbing or be a 1%er but they rarely get stuck in MMH, they just don't stop climbing, my sister was like that, climbed all the way to the top and quit after burn out 2 years after reaching her highest spot, basically a rung below VP. She quit at 36.

Burn out is a very common trope in MMH though, just need to manage it as you can.
 
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