Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sick as an excuse

vonbock

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Getting to know a girl for about a month now. SO far I feel she is interested. Now I call Wednesday and she sounds sick with the cold. I ask her to go out on Friday and says let her see how she feels on Friday before deciding. Now, if a girl is really intereted in you, would she go out with you even though she is sick with the cold?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Max Power

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Think of your favourite actress

If you had a date with her and got the sniffles what would you do?
 

vonbock

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you're right max. I know most guys on here would say if girl not interetsed, NEXT!!!. But now I am thinking, hey if she is not interested, hang around her and be friends. You never know who you might meet through her.
I don't belive in nexting.
 

Scought

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I wouldn't next. However, I wouldn't be as happy to hang out again. I don't mean get mad, I just mean don't be so eager when/if she calls you back.

Nexting is overrated on here. Whats the difference between her "faking an excuse" and nexting? Nothing, because either way you have 0 chance of seeing her. Simply, put her on a backburner til she proves otherwise.


I would put it on her to call back.

"OK, call me when you get better." If she doesn't call by sometime early next week, give her one more call, leave a message if need be, and delete the number. She will either call back or not. That will give you a VERY clear message.
 

DJDamage

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Sometimes when they say that they are sick, they are actually are sick! don't need to panic over this. I mean if she's got a running nose, I think she is doing you a favour no? you don't want to taste her mucous right?!

Wait after the weekend has passed and call her up to see how she feels and schedule another date. If she makes up another excuse then right there you know she was bullsh1ting you and then you should NEXT her.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crayon

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Sick CAN actually be sick sometimes. I once delayed a date myself, with a girl i was interested in, because i had some allergies that made me look like an insane vampire from hell or something. DJDamage gives some good advice here, i think.
 

COD

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sheesh..........wait til friday......she is sick for crying out loud........CHICS ARE LIKE THAT.

IF YOU CALL HER NEXT TIME AFTER FRIDAY AND SHE GIVES YOU THE OLD.........RUN-A-ROUND.......then next her.

ITS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE............in the mean time.....FIND ANOTHER CHIC.
 
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