"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Shyness

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Getting numbers, but women are too shy to answer.
They are attracted to me, but too shy to answer.
I've even said "Don't worry i'll do all the talking. It'll be alright, but still there too shy.
Now i would say 2/8 will answer, but thats not good enough.
Any advice??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, some girls are too shy to pick up my calls also.
Any advice?
 
Rainman4707

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..well i think theres more to it than that.
 
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Thanks lads. I'll improve.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She'll blow you in front of her family during a Memorial Day BBQ at high noon while her nephew Billy records it on his iPhone if she's interested in you!
 
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Shyness is code for not interested. Fact. If it's so hard to get a phone call to her, how hard do you think you'll have to work to so much as get a kiss?

Do you think a woman would be shy to meet Brad Pitt? Denzel? Hell no.

Women who are interested in you WON'T confuse you.

Case closed. Exit stage left.
 
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Well i messaged them back & forth using naughty ninjas techniques, which creates attraction. Then i wanted them on the phone to escalate.
I understand & appreciate the advice. I'll see what happens in the next week & report back.
 
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I got a couple more numbers & they both answered.
Must just be a numbers game.
 
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