"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Shyness

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Getting numbers, but women are too shy to answer.
They are attracted to me, but too shy to answer.
I've even said "Don't worry i'll do all the talking. It'll be alright, but still there too shy.
Now i would say 2/8 will answer, but thats not good enough.
Any advice??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, some girls are too shy to pick up my calls also.
Any advice?
 

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..well i think theres more to it than that.
 

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Thanks lads. I'll improve.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She'll blow you in front of her family during a Memorial Day BBQ at high noon while her nephew Billy records it on his iPhone if she's interested in you!
 

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From New Orleans, Louisiana to Atlanta, Georgia!!!
Shyness is code for not interested. Fact. If it's so hard to get a phone call to her, how hard do you think you'll have to work to so much as get a kiss?

Do you think a woman would be shy to meet Brad Pitt? Denzel? Hell no.

Women who are interested in you WON'T confuse you.

Case closed. Exit stage left.
 

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Well i messaged them back & forth using naughty ninjas techniques, which creates attraction. Then i wanted them on the phone to escalate.
I understand & appreciate the advice. I'll see what happens in the next week & report back.
 

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I got a couple more numbers & they both answered.
Must just be a numbers game.
 
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