What are some conversational checks to vet if a girl is shy and unsure but into you as opposed to being just disinterested and trying to get rid of you. I've seen how some good looking girls can have an inexplicable lack of self awareness seemingly of how attractive they are, like they've got the pathological state of an unattractive girl in a hot girls body so they don't pick up on the fact you dig them and are interested. How can you push to see if they really ain't interested and trying not to encourage you rather than just highly unsure of their own value and that you are demonstrating you're into them?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
shy vs uninterested
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
You ask them out, if the go out with you they are interested, if they don't then they are not. It really doesn't matter if she is 'shy' or uninterested. There are too many women in the world to sit around wondering what one chick's motivations might be.
Also... no matter how hot a chick is there are things about her appearance she is self conscious of, this is why they are always looking for validation from men. They all do this, she will accept validation from any man, but a woman is only interested in the validation of men she finds attractive.
Also... no matter how hot a chick is there are things about her appearance she is self conscious of, this is why they are always looking for validation from men. They all do this, she will accept validation from any man, but a woman is only interested in the validation of men she finds attractive.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
The difference is that a shy girl will be shy with everyone (unless you get her to open up)
And an uninterested girl will be particularly shy with you
Note: a girl can be both.
Shy girls are annoying as fvck regardless and not worth the effort if they act shy around you too, I tell shy girls to cut it out and ignore them when they don't
And an uninterested girl will be particularly shy with you
Note: a girl can be both.
Shy girls are annoying as fvck regardless and not worth the effort if they act shy around you too, I tell shy girls to cut it out and ignore them when they don't