What are some conversational checks to vet if a girl is shy and unsure but into you as opposed to being just disinterested and trying to get rid of you. I've seen how some good looking girls can have an inexplicable lack of self awareness seemingly of how attractive they are, like they've got the pathological state of an unattractive girl in a hot girls body so they don't pick up on the fact you dig them and are interested. How can you push to see if they really ain't interested and trying not to encourage you rather than just highly unsure of their own value and that you are demonstrating you're into them?
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shy vs uninterested
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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
You ask them out, if the go out with you they are interested, if they don't then they are not. It really doesn't matter if she is 'shy' or uninterested. There are too many women in the world to sit around wondering what one chick's motivations might be.
Also... no matter how hot a chick is there are things about her appearance she is self conscious of, this is why they are always looking for validation from men. They all do this, she will accept validation from any man, but a woman is only interested in the validation of men she finds attractive.
Also... no matter how hot a chick is there are things about her appearance she is self conscious of, this is why they are always looking for validation from men. They all do this, she will accept validation from any man, but a woman is only interested in the validation of men she finds attractive.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
The difference is that a shy girl will be shy with everyone (unless you get her to open up)
And an uninterested girl will be particularly shy with you
Note: a girl can be both.
Shy girls are annoying as fvck regardless and not worth the effort if they act shy around you too, I tell shy girls to cut it out and ignore them when they don't
And an uninterested girl will be particularly shy with you
Note: a girl can be both.
Shy girls are annoying as fvck regardless and not worth the effort if they act shy around you too, I tell shy girls to cut it out and ignore them when they don't