What are some conversational checks to vet if a girl is shy and unsure but into you as opposed to being just disinterested and trying to get rid of you. I've seen how some good looking girls can have an inexplicable lack of self awareness seemingly of how attractive they are, like they've got the pathological state of an unattractive girl in a hot girls body so they don't pick up on the fact you dig them and are interested. How can you push to see if they really ain't interested and trying not to encourage you rather than just highly unsure of their own value and that you are demonstrating you're into them?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
shy vs uninterested
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
You ask them out, if the go out with you they are interested, if they don't then they are not. It really doesn't matter if she is 'shy' or uninterested. There are too many women in the world to sit around wondering what one chick's motivations might be.
Also... no matter how hot a chick is there are things about her appearance she is self conscious of, this is why they are always looking for validation from men. They all do this, she will accept validation from any man, but a woman is only interested in the validation of men she finds attractive.
Also... no matter how hot a chick is there are things about her appearance she is self conscious of, this is why they are always looking for validation from men. They all do this, she will accept validation from any man, but a woman is only interested in the validation of men she finds attractive.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
The difference is that a shy girl will be shy with everyone (unless you get her to open up)
And an uninterested girl will be particularly shy with you
Note: a girl can be both.
Shy girls are annoying as fvck regardless and not worth the effort if they act shy around you too, I tell shy girls to cut it out and ignore them when they don't
And an uninterested girl will be particularly shy with you
Note: a girl can be both.
Shy girls are annoying as fvck regardless and not worth the effort if they act shy around you too, I tell shy girls to cut it out and ignore them when they don't