"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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shy scaired girl

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Hello,

I go the first year of college..but i have little experience with girls...no serious relationships.. so I think this is the right place to post this.. :)

So I have a crush on a girl thats in my class, and I think she likes me too ( she looks at me when im not looking ) i talked to her over facebook a couple of times, and also she contacted me a couple of times back.
We havent talked in school much because she is really shy (only hello) she told me she is a shy person...

Now the pastdays I found out she had a boyfriend and they went apart for i dont know why...
Now she is all: I dont want no boyfriends anymore because ill get hurt... And she allways says she doesnt care fore anything...
But im almost sure she likes me (if anyone wants to know why i think that way let me know.)

So...what to do now? Is there hope? What to do next...im lost..
I would really appreciate your help, because i really like her :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I came to her in school, said hi....she looked at me and said hello and walked away...i saw she was scaired... --
Its hard.
 

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You're trying to take the cart before the horse. You want the girls, before you know what it means to be a guy that girls want.

You need to take a few steps back, read the DJ bible, and practice on a few girls you won't see all the time.

If she really liked you, you would probably know it by now.
 

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She's trying to protect herself... Nothing wrong with that, and a natural reaction for younger, shy girls.

Hang in there, buddy. If you sense she like you, she probably does. It may take a while, but once you gain her trust she'll be worth the wait. I can promise you that.

The Gambler
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea im too fast :D
And overdoing the facebook...

I'll slow down a bit, and then keep posting here on the progress, so don't delete this thread :p please
 

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Well that went worse then expected. She cut her hair really short and after some fb chat I found out she is kind of a real looser :( a liitle 2 much 4 me, even if i am too. Still havent talked.... But i dont even wan to because of her new haircut.
Found out she had a bf and they had a breakup and he destoroyed her life...google says thats the reason for cutting the hair..lol


What now im confused.
 

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Haha, this thread is still here :D

Well im gonna let you know what happened. She looks better now, we went out a couple of times...she's insane. I don't like her :D
But she likes me really badly, now I cant just **** her of because she is good for helping me in school :D
 
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