"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hello,

I go the first year of college..but i have little experience with girls...no serious relationships.. so I think this is the right place to post this.. :)

So I have a crush on a girl thats in my class, and I think she likes me too ( she looks at me when im not looking ) i talked to her over facebook a couple of times, and also she contacted me a couple of times back.
We havent talked in school much because she is really shy (only hello) she told me she is a shy person...

Now the pastdays I found out she had a boyfriend and they went apart for i dont know why...
Now she is all: I dont want no boyfriends anymore because ill get hurt... And she allways says she doesnt care fore anything...
But im almost sure she likes me (if anyone wants to know why i think that way let me know.)

So...what to do now? Is there hope? What to do next...im lost..
I would really appreciate your help, because i really like her :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I came to her in school, said hi....she looked at me and said hello and walked away...i saw she was scaired... --
Its hard.
 
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You're trying to take the cart before the horse. You want the girls, before you know what it means to be a guy that girls want.

You need to take a few steps back, read the DJ bible, and practice on a few girls you won't see all the time.

If she really liked you, you would probably know it by now.
 
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She's trying to protect herself... Nothing wrong with that, and a natural reaction for younger, shy girls.

Hang in there, buddy. If you sense she like you, she probably does. It may take a while, but once you gain her trust she'll be worth the wait. I can promise you that.

The Gambler
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yea im too fast :D
And overdoing the facebook...

I'll slow down a bit, and then keep posting here on the progress, so don't delete this thread :p please
 
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Well that went worse then expected. She cut her hair really short and after some fb chat I found out she is kind of a real looser :( a liitle 2 much 4 me, even if i am too. Still havent talked.... But i dont even wan to because of her new haircut.
Found out she had a bf and they had a breakup and he destoroyed her life...google says thats the reason for cutting the hair..lol


What now im confused.
 
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Haha, this thread is still here :D

Well im gonna let you know what happened. She looks better now, we went out a couple of times...she's insane. I don't like her :D
But she likes me really badly, now I cant just **** her of because she is good for helping me in school :D
 
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