"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shy homebody - how to game?

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Leporello

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There's a girl who lives across the hall from me who is very cute, with that innocent and fresh thing that I've yet to really experience and I'd like to have at least once before it's too late.

Trouble is, she's very shy and withdrawn. I've only seen her on campus once; every other time she's puttering around the common area heating up something in the microwave and then dashing straight back into her room.

How shy is she? She took the name card off her door. She's not on Facebook. The first decent convo i had with her was when I helped her catch the bus into town and she confessed that in her third year at uni she's only been into town twice.

BUT, she does live across the hall from me. Advice?

EDIT: I should say, having talked to her, that she seems like a very sweet and lovable person. Just a bit overwhelmed by the world, if you know what i mean.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ask yourself these two questions first:

1) Is this socially withdrawn person really the kind of girl that I want to spend my time and energy on?

2) If things go sour, do I want to live next to her?
 
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Prodigy746

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Knock on her door and ask if you can borrow some sugar lol!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FIRST... you are gonna need a door jammer. Now freeze jam that door and then KICK THAT THING OFF ITS HINGES!!
Good now quickly get in there she will be frightened.. Hurry use your Mind Telepathy "You are safe, you are horny, you are safe and sedated, you like sex from guys" Great now get out your pantie prongs.. alright pull, pull them fvckers off! ok good, now INSERT! Fvcking INSERT!!!



...you know what needs to happen here? Here is a perfect thread that will explain it...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134383

Sorry man but you're asking for what to do with this ONE girl... there is no set tools and methods we could tell you that would help you (at least that hasn't been said yet)... read that thread then do something about it.
 
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I have to say i don't take this site all that seriously. I just wanted a little friendly advice is all.
 
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