"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Shy homebody - how to game?

Leporello

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There's a girl who lives across the hall from me who is very cute, with that innocent and fresh thing that I've yet to really experience and I'd like to have at least once before it's too late.

Trouble is, she's very shy and withdrawn. I've only seen her on campus once; every other time she's puttering around the common area heating up something in the microwave and then dashing straight back into her room.

How shy is she? She took the name card off her door. She's not on Facebook. The first decent convo i had with her was when I helped her catch the bus into town and she confessed that in her third year at uni she's only been into town twice.

BUT, she does live across the hall from me. Advice?

EDIT: I should say, having talked to her, that she seems like a very sweet and lovable person. Just a bit overwhelmed by the world, if you know what i mean.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ask yourself these two questions first:

1) Is this socially withdrawn person really the kind of girl that I want to spend my time and energy on?

2) If things go sour, do I want to live next to her?
 

Prodigy746

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Knock on her door and ask if you can borrow some sugar lol!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Randallpink83

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FIRST... you are gonna need a door jammer. Now freeze jam that door and then KICK THAT THING OFF ITS HINGES!!
Good now quickly get in there she will be frightened.. Hurry use your Mind Telepathy "You are safe, you are horny, you are safe and sedated, you like sex from guys" Great now get out your pantie prongs.. alright pull, pull them fvckers off! ok good, now INSERT! Fvcking INSERT!!!



...you know what needs to happen here? Here is a perfect thread that will explain it...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134383

Sorry man but you're asking for what to do with this ONE girl... there is no set tools and methods we could tell you that would help you (at least that hasn't been said yet)... read that thread then do something about it.
 

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I have to say i don't take this site all that seriously. I just wanted a little friendly advice is all.
 
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