"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This chick I've gone out with is in a grad school class with a guy I know. ( my buddy knows him better). My buddy gor this relayed to me that the guy told him that when he asked her what she was doing all day before class she told him as a matter of factly "I watched porn for 5 hours". This was after the guy was informed that I went out with her.
SO I am wondering if someone is trying to block me here by making her out to be a slutty little freak. Girl is HB9.

She's said some silly stuff before: when I went out on a date with her, she told me she likes soccer, I ask why. She says "cause I like to kick people". I mean WTF? DO some girls like to try to get a rise out of a guy to see if they can be shocked? Is it a test? Or is it possible this one is a little freak?

THis chick seems on the shyer side but seems like she has a wild side to her. Could she be a quiet shy *****? Or just a repressed chick using porn as a fantasy while trying to find a freaky guy. Additionally, the guy I know also thinks the girls is attractive but charecterized her as crazy and a bit sketchy. Is this a possible ****block on his part? trying to dissuade me from maintaining an interest in her.

From experience, when I was at a party once, I emt this hotchick who was a math major and was into me for talking to her about math adn spirituality. Anyways, the host of the party seemed to have his eye on her and said she sleeps around and that a good guy like you shouldn waste your time. I avoided her from taht point on and she looked kind of confused as well. Anyways, I realized later that I got played. DOnt want to make this mistake again.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SamePendo

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Ask her out, make out with her, tap that ass.


And.. to answer your question, do you really want to know.. or would you rather do at least one of the abouve?
 

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from my experience it's best that whatever you do with this girl DON'T LISTEN TO WHAT OTHER GUYS SAY!!!! Most of em are untrustworthy aswell as competition, think for yourself.......you're smart enough to figure out on your own if a girl is slutty, flakey, shallow, abusive etc. by her everyday and casual behaviors.....btw, who cares if she does, she ain't the only one
 

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ya don't listen to those guys. I've had that happen to me before where they say 'blah blah this girl isn't right for you' when they got no where with her, and they are just trying to prevent you from getting somewhere they couldn't.
 

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I agree SamePendo,

tap that motherf_cking ass man, tap it. Just tap that nice ass.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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xblitz44x

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To find out that a girl watched 5 hours of porn would turn me on. I would want to pursue her more.
 

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When dating a specific girl other people know. Do not completely believe what other people say about her.

And always remember this: What girls say and what they do ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS.
 

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Why would a girl tell any guy she watches 5 hr of porn. Nuts. I hope she's telling the truth. Hope she's not a teaser.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Originally posted by majumbo
This chick I've gone out with is in a grad school class with a guy I know. ( my buddy knows him better). My buddy gor this relayed to me that the guy told him that when he asked her what she was doing all day before class she told him as a matter of factly "I watched porn for 5 hours". This was after the guy was informed that I went out with her.
SO I am wondering if someone is trying to block me here by making her out to be a slutty little freak. Girl is HB9.

She's said some silly stuff before: when I went out on a date with her, she told me she likes soccer, I ask why. She says "cause I like to kick people". I mean WTF? DO some girls like to try to get a rise out of a guy to see if they can be shocked? Is it a test? Or is it possible this one is a little freak?

THis chick seems on the shyer side but seems like she has a wild side to her. Could she be a quiet shy *****? Or just a repressed chick using porn as a fantasy while trying to find a freaky guy. Additionally, the guy I know also thinks the girls is attractive but charecterized her as crazy and a bit sketchy. Is this a possible ****block on his part? trying to dissuade me from maintaining an interest in her.

From experience, when I was at a party once, I emt this hotchick who was a math major and was into me for talking to her about math adn spirituality. Anyways, the host of the party seemed to have his eye on her and said she sleeps around and that a good guy like you shouldn waste your time. I avoided her from taht point on and she looked kind of confused as well. Anyways, I realized later that I got played. DOnt want to make this mistake again.
Play him. Do you still have contact with her? Don't act desperate to get her back, but tell her straight up that you initially liked her but backed off when that guy said those things about her.


Oh and by the way, never take advice from a guy like that unless he is your boy from way back.
 

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Ever think that this is her version of ****y/funny?

hen I went out on a date with her, she told me she likes soccer, I ask why. She says "cause I like to kick people".
he asked her what she was doing all day before class she told him as a matter of factly "I watched porn for 5 hours"
See, I'd find this 5hit funny. A chick with a good sense of humor that matches mine is a complete turnon.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sexy_Malibu

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I agree. I think she was just being funny. I mean who asks "WHY do you like soccer?" There's not always a REASON, you just like it. But "I like to kick people" is a really funny answer.
 

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According to the guys at my school every girls has fvced them or a guy they know and even the quietest chic is "total freak,duuuuudeee"..

:rolleyes:

I don't listen to the comp.
 

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yeah, man. she has a deadpan sense of humour - that rocks! watch a little jon stewart, adult swim cartoons, or larry david, and you might understand better.

many chicks would be like "o, i studied, then called my friend, then this boy called me, ohmygod!"

count your blessings. witty girls are usually much better in bed.
 

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Yeah, that's what I sensed when I read the post... I highly doubt that she was actually watching porn for 5 hours. She was just saying that just like a natural DJ would walk up to an amazingly beautiful woman, stop, eye her from head to toe, look her in the eyes for a few seconds, then turn and shake his head in disapproval as he walked away. (You KNOW she'd be thinking "What the FVCK!?")

She might be a natural DJ herself... I would definitely persue her. They're tons of fun.
 

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Go for it man. And never listen to what other guys/girls say about a chick you're pursuing. This is key, on a subconcious level 99% of people will try and ****block you unless they are in a happy relationship themselves.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Either she has a dry sense of humor - or she got zero scoial skills (the reason she is shy?).

Don't listen and tap that a##. Find out 1st hand.
 

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
What girls say and what they do ARE TWO COMPLETELY DIFFERENT THINGS.
TRUTH. AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH.
 

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She sounds a little neurotic, so the warnings your buddies give you may in fact be right. Shy people can often be the craziest ppl you ever meet. It's just that they talk so little, so their ideas rarely manifest.
 

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in what way does she sound neurotic, of all things?

i know DJs should not watch too much TV, but i think you're missing out on an entire school of humour.

if she said, smiling, that she was master of her domain, would you think she was seriously against masturbating?

ah well. more good ones for the rest of us.
 
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