"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shy girl pt2

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Don Juan
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So awhile ago i did post about this shy girl and the best way to open her up but I was looking for her myspace because i seen her on thier a lot so i did find her and woah this sexy spanish girl definity not "shy" though couldn't see the actual page since it was on private her picture definity said a lot about her...she seems to be the party girl type, likes going to bars,etc. so what i want to know is what is your guys experiences with the party girl types of women? In person she looks like the most innocent girl and she speaks in a soft voice but i know 99% of the time those innocent girls aren't what they seem.



problem is its going to be week 4 in college and still haven't spoken to her i remember somwhere here to just ask for a pencil or pen and work from thier somethin liek this

me:thanx for the pen
her: no problem
me: you know you look like the most innocent girl i've meet here.
her: (probably will smile)
then from thier i was thinking of bustin on her and telling her i bet shes not so "innoccent". now that i think about it at the end I was thinking of saying "you know what (pause for effect) your alright....(got that from somewhere here) then saying you seem like a fun person to hang out with...... and how i should of talked to her sooner and what not....then ask "if thiers a number i can reach her at" so we could hang out sometime.

but the only time i could get this kind of conversation is at the end of class while we are walking i thought about doing this in class but i would be wierd having everyone listening on me since the classroom small and i sit up front with her

idk what are your guys inputs on this if i don't get her number its gonna be 8 weeks of a wierdness for the semester but then again i'm assuming she will be open since its college and assuming she don't know/have many freinds here and only has those leftover friends from high school she hangs out with. on a scale of 1-10 shes meh i can't really say for sure its between a 7-8 (would be a 9 if she had a nicer ass <_<) anways i still have a few more questions but i'll wait till this one is answered. thx in advance guys.

sorry for the longness of this but i'm just writing as i go.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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