"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shy girl pt2

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Don Juan
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So awhile ago i did post about this shy girl and the best way to open her up but I was looking for her myspace because i seen her on thier a lot so i did find her and woah this sexy spanish girl definity not "shy" though couldn't see the actual page since it was on private her picture definity said a lot about her...she seems to be the party girl type, likes going to bars,etc. so what i want to know is what is your guys experiences with the party girl types of women? In person she looks like the most innocent girl and she speaks in a soft voice but i know 99% of the time those innocent girls aren't what they seem.



problem is its going to be week 4 in college and still haven't spoken to her i remember somwhere here to just ask for a pencil or pen and work from thier somethin liek this

me:thanx for the pen
her: no problem
me: you know you look like the most innocent girl i've meet here.
her: (probably will smile)
then from thier i was thinking of bustin on her and telling her i bet shes not so "innoccent". now that i think about it at the end I was thinking of saying "you know what (pause for effect) your alright....(got that from somewhere here) then saying you seem like a fun person to hang out with...... and how i should of talked to her sooner and what not....then ask "if thiers a number i can reach her at" so we could hang out sometime.

but the only time i could get this kind of conversation is at the end of class while we are walking i thought about doing this in class but i would be wierd having everyone listening on me since the classroom small and i sit up front with her

idk what are your guys inputs on this if i don't get her number its gonna be 8 weeks of a wierdness for the semester but then again i'm assuming she will be open since its college and assuming she don't know/have many freinds here and only has those leftover friends from high school she hangs out with. on a scale of 1-10 shes meh i can't really say for sure its between a 7-8 (would be a 9 if she had a nicer ass <_<) anways i still have a few more questions but i'll wait till this one is answered. thx in advance guys.

sorry for the longness of this but i'm just writing as i go.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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